I am here as I didn’t know where else to be. I would like to share with you my opinion about what men are looking for in a woman, and then to ask you if it’s my “foreign” perspective or other people noticed the same thing.
I’ve been on a dating website, one of the most appreciated by media, for a couple of months and browsing through profiles I realized that there is a trend: men are looking for “buffoons”.
More than 95 % of the men are looking for “an attractive person, happy, confident, fun to be around, who likes adventures, willing to take chances, who has a strong sense of humor, financially stable, independent but who likes to be spoiled, willing to travel”… And the list can continue.
A very few, I could count them on the fingers of one hand, enumerated character traits like honesty, dependability, loyalty …even compatibility.
After some time, I ended up asking myself: should I be gimmick provider; a buffoonery bringer, somebody who brings funny moments in their lives?
Based on my cultural and family background, a woman as well as a man should bring stability in a household, should be each other best friends, life partners, etc…
I am still new in this country and some people told me that I still have many things to learn about it, but I think that some values are cross cultural and applicable worldwide.
For now my only conclusion is that American men are looking for “buffoons”.
Is there something that I missed in those profiles? Should I read something between lines?