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Furthermore, I never once claimed that I oppose giving support to families, just as I don't oppose intervening if you see a crime being comitted. What I am arguing against here is the idea that capitalism (or indeed anyone else) is responsible for the situation of these women simply for not preventing it. All that is necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to spout clichés | |||
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| weary pragmatist Location: Canada
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Nothing says we must procreate? So, would you suggest that all of us can simply stop procreating? You are perfectly okay with not a single other child being born? Do you think this is practical, desirable, or even possible? For any society to have a chance to grow and to providing the bare minimum of quality of life, childbearing and parenting has to be supported. This is the reason for maternity and paternity benefits and the reason why it makes no practical sense to allow discrimination on the basis of potential to procreate. Your comments about poor parenting are somewhat ironic in that you indicate you are comfortable with the idea of society not doing anything to assist people in effective parenting. If employers better addressed the needs of employees who are parents, there would likely not be so many absentee parents, as you put it. So while you bemoan a social ill, you admit that you don't support creating conditions that could change it. This seems contradictory to me. Further, it is clearly a human rights violation to discriminate against individuals based on probability (real or imagined) related to a given social group. For example, men are more likely to steal from their employers, have workplace accidents, and to be violent in the workplace. According to your reasoning, an employer could refuse to hire men because the probability of injury or criminal behavior, which costs the employer money, is greater among men. Is your friend aware that what he is doing is illegal? | |
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| weary pragmatist Location: Canada
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| weary pragmatist Location: Canada
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Would you be okay with refusing to hire workers of a certain race if it were shown they were statistically more likely to take time off work? Your claim about the Dept of Labor stats is untrue. Here is the pdf; www.bls.gov/cps/cpswom2004.pdf - On page 19, you will see the median weekly earnings of women with no children under 18 were 582, but 661 for men without children, and 794 for men with children. | |
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| weary pragmatist Location: Canada
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Bacon Guy, almost one third of households with children are headed by a single parent in the US. Further, your claim that an "overwhelming majority" must require a service in order or it to be essential is bogus. An overwhelming majority of people do not require the services of tradespeople such as plumbers, which you claimed was an essential need.You could indeed go a whole life without their services if your plumbing, electrical, or whatever, were properly installed to begin with. Many people also do their own work. My spouse and I, for example, have been able to do all the plumbing and electrical in our home, to full code standards, simply by studying books on the subject. Anyone of sufficient intelligence and industriousness could do the same. It's also not something one requires in order to survive. No childcare means no job, and no job means no food. You won't go hungry because your drain needs snaking out, and you can't b a do-it-yourselfer when it comes to daycare. So, which is really "essential"? I don't think capitalism is responsible for this either, but I would like you to explain how equity in pay for women with children amounts to "shifting responsibility" for their choices. I would submit you that evolutionary imperative is indeed a physical law. Therefore, we, as a species, are indeed forced to procreate. We aren't forced to do so as individuals, but that's irrelevant, because we are talking about employment equity for ~all~ women, not just individuals who make choices you approve of. If we don't have social supports for childbearing and childrearing, we violate evolutionary imperative. | |
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| weary pragmatist Location: Canada
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He must have thought it was a "gotcha!" question, and apparently, so did you, possibly because neither of you paid much attention to what I was actually saying. <shrug> The "gotcha!" game often backfires like that. | |
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| Hot Lava Location: canada
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I suspect these studies providing these statistics are somewhat skewed, and are more reflective of the varyance in the types of jobs that men and women typically choose and no so much of actual same job, same hours spent, same committment to job reflection. Any examples within my social circle do not reflect these stats. The women who have put in the same time as men and are doing equal jobs do receive equal pay. (psychologist, doctors, office workers, teachers, execs) I'd love to see some real life examples that are reflective of these stats. I suspect there are circumstances here that are left unmentioned that figure in. Re; the idea that somehow those who choose to pro-create and continue the human species are somehow doing the rest of humans a favor is not one that all will agree upon, particularly In a world that is agruable overpopulated at present. Becoming a parent is not a given as is evidenced by the many who choose not to procreate... a choice often mde for the very reason of pursuing a career fully. No doubt,Being a good parent, caring for children is an important, full time job..the very idea that somehow an individual is capable of being a primary care giver to their child as well as seriously pursuing a career is debatable. Something is going to suffer. If its not the job, then it will be the child, if it's not the child then it will be the job. I'm all for some amount of support for those who choose to bring children into this world, but lets face it, no amount of gov't support is going to make someone a 'superhuman'. There is only so much a person is capable of time-wise and energy wise. Employers deserve better than a half-committed employee...children deserve better than half-committed care. It is a fact that many more men are becoming primary care givers today. Perhaps with this shift we'll begin to see the wage gap even out. Men who are primary care givers or who choose to stay home with children will be taking lower paying jobs or exhibiting less committment to their employment and will therefore receive lower pay...as they should. As a parent of 2 myself, I was real clear on the fact that my choice to bring them into this world meant that my income would take a huge dip during the years of their young childhood. Being that I've always been self-employed my situation was perhaps different than many employees, however in some ways is may have been a more accurate reflection of the situation. I was not able to put in the same effort or hours after choosing to have children, therefore my income reflected that. I can't even imagine griping about this as it was completely MY choice...I certainly don't expect anyone to applaud my choice or somehow 'make up' for the fact that my income came to a screeching halt when I gave birth, when I could have just as easily chosen not to have kids and keep the status of my employment and income intact. | |
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