there is no way it is instinctive to be revolted by the thought of sex with the same sex or not, it is all about what turns you on. Some people find it disgusting to have sex man on man, but others find it disgusting to have sex woman on man or woman on woman. It is all natural, we all just want to feel loved. To feel intimate with someone else. It is our right to do so. My question is why does it matter if someone is open about there sexuality? As long as you dont see them doing the dirty deed on a street corner (that goes for straight people too) there shouldnt be a problem. Its not your life am I right or wrong?