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Halofan48 · Apr 22, 2008, 06:10 pm

not necessarily. It could simply be a friendship. And i didn't mean that it'd be the only goal, just a possible outcome of such conversations. Like, lets say your an amateur biologist, and you try to learn things about biology from some of the women in there. Your goal was to learn, but it is possible that you gain a friendship from it or something more.

Gods_Mercenary · Apr 22, 2008, 06:16 pm

Or you could end up hating all the intelligent women and preferring the easy one.

Halofan48 · Apr 22, 2008, 06:23 pm

Unless you are frightened by intelligent women, like some men are, or every last one of them is completely full of themselves, this is unlikely. IMO anyway. I've been in a room filled with very intelligent women. There was a few I didn't like (one was stuck up, and the other was my sister who insisted my presence was embarrassing her

) The others were very nice to talk to. They had some interesting ideas. I made friends with 4 of them. I found another girl attractive as well. She was intelligent, kind, caring. I also learned about some things happening elsewhere in the world. Just a personal example.

gela · Apr 22, 2008, 07:00 pm

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Well lets be honest, what do we want from women the most?
Starts with s ends with x.
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If all men want from women is sex, then why do they get married?

Why restrict your sex to only one girl?

You only like girls for sex. We've long established that you dislike women. But please don't think your mind set is normal, or logical.

Anmon · Apr 22, 2008, 07:10 pm

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If all men want from women is sex, then why do they get married?
Why restrict your sex to only one girl?
You only like girls for sex. We've long established that you dislike women. But please don't think your mind set is normal, or logical.

Depends on what kind of person the woman is gela, no one should automatically have to like anyone just because of what sex they are.
If the woman is a nice friendly person with a sense of humour, I usually like her. On the other hand if shes a shallow and self centered nasty bitch, well I would have very little time for her.
You understand don't you?

gela · Apr 22, 2008, 08:58 pm

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Depends on what kind of person the woman is gela, no one should automatically have to like anyone just because of what sex they are.
If the woman is a nice friendly person with a sense of humour, I usually like her. On the other hand if shes a shallow and self centered nasty bitch, well I would have very little time for her.
You understand don't you?

I understand.
But when you make nasty generalisations about females, then that includes the nice good humored ones.
and I believe that nice good humored girls make up at least half of females.

Tell me. Would you spend time with a nice and good humored female - regardless of wether she was attractive or not?
Would you spend time with her because you enjoy her company mabe?

Anmon · Apr 22, 2008, 09:17 pm

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=gela;499288]I understand.
But when you make nasty generalisations about females, then that includes the nice good humored ones.

Nasty generalisations like what?

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and I believe that nice good humored girls make up at least half of females.

Probably more.

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Tell me. Would you spend time with a nice and good humored female - regardless of wether she was attractive or not?

Yes, as long as she wasn't hideous.

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Would you spend time with her because you enjoy her company mabe?

Only if she makes me laugh.

gela · Apr 22, 2008, 09:29 pm

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Yes, as long as she wasn't hideous.

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Only if she makes me laugh.

Good.
Then if this girl happens to also be attractive, then we can conclude that the relationship is not about sex.

Anmon · Apr 22, 2008, 09:55 pm

No but it might be.

Winter wind · Apr 23, 2008, 10:48 am

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I've already explained to you twice about my views on what kind of women I like as friends. I'm not going to do it again, your just being precocious and argumentative.

I'm not trying to be...it just your argument is confusing me. Watch...

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Well lets be honest, what do we want from women the most?
Starts with s ends with x.

Ok, so you want sex the most.

But wait

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Well you can, I said that I enjoy being friends with girls I find sexy or funny.

Alright, thats ok except...

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I wont lie, I'm only friends with them so I can get in their pants, at least I'm honest.

except

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If the woman is a nice friendly person with a sense of humour, I usually like her. On the other hand if shes a shallow and self centered nasty bitch, well I would have very little time for her.

So you should be able to get along.

yet, you say that men and woman aren't meant to get along

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Could be why we fight, so we don't get too close. Natures way of keeping us apart, just a thought.

....Help...because I'm missing something

Anmon · Apr 23, 2008, 05:35 pm

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....Help...because I'm missing something

You are, I was referring to siblings, not men and women in general.

Halofan48 · Apr 23, 2008, 06:02 pm

Than what about mother and son or father and daughter anmon? What about their relationships? Or better yet, what about a girl and her uncle? Or a boy and his aunt?

Anmon · Apr 23, 2008, 06:30 pm

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Than what about mother and son or father and daughter anmon? What about their relationships? Or better yet, what about a girl and her uncle? Or a boy and his aunt?

I think their are enough people in the world to have sex with, besides picking relatives.

Halofan48 · Apr 23, 2008, 06:44 pm

Not what i meant anmon. What I am saying do you think that these people can have these relationships without the relationship involving sex?

Anmon · Apr 23, 2008, 07:54 pm

Yeah but thats family, you have close blood ties.

Winter wind · Apr 24, 2008, 12:37 am

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Yeah but thats family, you have close blood ties.

The world has shown that sometimes that makes no difference.

Just 'cause your related doesn't mean it's easier to be friends then with any other person.

lsbskins1 · Apr 24, 2008, 12:50 am

Oh, lets add the lesbian perspective. I have many women friends that I do not want to have sex with who are otherwise perfectly attractive. I have straight female friends and lesbian friends I do not want to have sex with. Everything is not all about sex.

gela · Apr 24, 2008, 12:56 am

I have plenty of guy friends that I would never in a million years sleep with..
Its come to the point where it would seem like incest in my mind.

lindsay7 · Apr 24, 2008, 01:37 am

Sometimes I feel like opposite genders make better friends. With other girls sometimes there can be pettiness and envy, because they feel they're in competition with you. With guys, that element isn't there.

I've had guys tell me the same thing, that with their female friends they can be themselves more than with their guy friends.

Apr 22, 2008, 06:10 pm	#81 (permalink) (top)
Halofan48 Seeking the Unknown Location: Southern California Posts: 1,390	not necessarily. It could simply be a friendship. And i didn't mean that it'd be the only goal, just a possible outcome of such conversations. Like, lets say your an amateur biologist, and you try to learn things about biology from some of the women in there. Your goal was to learn, but it is possible that you gain a friendship from it or something more. Knowledge is power, use it well. Don't fear the unknown, seek to understand it

Apr 22, 2008, 06:16 pm	#82 (permalink) (top)
Gods_Mercenary Altruism Assassin Location: Massachusetts Posts: 5,261	Or you could end up hating all the intelligent women and preferring the easy one. “Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former.” -Albert Einstein

Apr 22, 2008, 06:23 pm	#83 (permalink) (top)
Halofan48 Seeking the Unknown Location: Southern California Posts: 1,390	Unless you are frightened by intelligent women, like some men are, or every last one of them is completely full of themselves, this is unlikely. IMO anyway. I've been in a room filled with very intelligent women. There was a few I didn't like (one was stuck up, and the other was my sister who insisted my presence was embarrassing her ) The others were very nice to talk to. They had some interesting ideas. I made friends with 4 of them. I found another girl attractive as well. She was intelligent, kind, caring. I also learned about some things happening elsewhere in the world. Just a personal example. Knowledge is power, use it well. Don't fear the unknown, seek to understand it

Apr 23, 2008, 06:02 pm	#92 (permalink) (top)
Halofan48 Seeking the Unknown Location: Southern California Posts: 1,390	Than what about mother and son or father and daughter anmon? What about their relationships? Or better yet, what about a girl and her uncle? Or a boy and his aunt? Knowledge is power, use it well. Don't fear the unknown, seek to understand it

Apr 23, 2008, 06:44 pm	#94 (permalink) (top)
Halofan48 Seeking the Unknown Location: Southern California Posts: 1,390	Not what i meant anmon. What I am saying do you think that these people can have these relationships without the relationship involving sex? Knowledge is power, use it well. Don't fear the unknown, seek to understand it

Apr 22, 2008, 09:55 pm	#89 (permalink) (top)
Anmon BANNED Location: between the good and the bad Posts: 1,330	No but it might be.

Apr 23, 2008, 07:54 pm	#95 (permalink) (top)
Anmon BANNED Location: between the good and the bad Posts: 1,330	Yeah but thats family, you have close blood ties.

Apr 24, 2008, 12:50 am	#97 (permalink) (top)
lsbskins1 Redskins Rule Location: South-Western Virginia Posts: 2,456	Oh, lets add the lesbian perspective. I have many women friends that I do not want to have sex with who are otherwise perfectly attractive. I have straight female friends and lesbian friends I do not want to have sex with. Everything is not all about sex. All I see when I look down, something jumpin' on the ground, Scratchin' dirt, cluckin' in the barnyard - Tell me, could that be you? John Kay

Apr 24, 2008, 12:56 am	#98 (permalink) (top)
gela Vampire Location: Newcastle, Australia Posts: 895	I have plenty of guy friends that I would never in a million years sleep with.. Its come to the point where it would seem like incest in my mind. Don't make me laugh .. bitterly Dylan Moran

Apr 24, 2008, 01:37 am	#99 (permalink) (top)
lindsay7 Igneous Magma Posts: 207	Sometimes I feel like opposite genders make better friends. With other girls sometimes there can be pettiness and envy, because they feel they're in competition with you. With guys, that element isn't there. I've had guys tell me the same thing, that with their female friends they can be themselves more than with their guy friends.