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| Hot Lava Location: Houston, TX Posts: 927 | To Lullaby and others: Yes, in many schools and of course society in general, homosexuality is perceived negatively. People use gay as an insult, or a general adjective to describe something that is unfair or dumb. Even teachers may use the word gay. In fact, even my gay teacher uses the phrase "that's gay." I do not think, however, that most "professional teachers" (as opposed to the up-beat, student-friendly, "chummy" kind) use gay in that sense, ever, in school. As to acceptance and tolerance of gays, I'm sure that in private conversation, people may discuss homosexuals and how they don't like them. However, when known homosexuals are indeed present, at least in my school, there is definitely a level of tact in approaching that subject. People don't mention it, or criticize the topic. In fact, when my and two other hetersexuals were working out in the hallway, a gay student and a girl were talking about that gay's sexual escapades, including three-somes. Of course, us three were absolutely mortified, but we didn't make fun of the gay student, even if he hadn't been so...open...about it. |
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| Absolutely Superb Posts: 774 | I think homosexuality needs to be explained at least by middle school, around the period in which students become sexually aware of themselves. I say this with the best interest of the students at heart- if any amongst them are homosexual, there is going to be a degree of personal confusion waiting for them in the near future if they are uninformed about a topic as taboo as "orientation". Keep in mind it's not just the mockery or intolerance that needs to be dealt with here, people. It's the context in which one grows into realizing he is homosexual. |
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I'm referring to teachers calling a guy at my school a faggot cause he acts girlish.. or how teachers mock homosexuality in gym class, or christ.. I wish you guys could spend a day at my school. It's sick. And my school isn't the only school like this. We teach kids to accept racial differences in school despite racists. Yet when we teach kids to accept homosexuals in school there's suddenly a problem 'cause of one of those hate groups? Since when has hate gotten priority over love? We myswell rip those friggen posters of all the kids of different races holding hands around the world.. I do believe RACISTS get priority over love and acceptance, right? I do believe homosexual hate in school is an OK thing that needs not be addressed, right? I'm sure you can at least understand that (I'm talking to everyone.. I'm not addressing this stuff at you Fangrim) a hispanic kid who is constantly ridiculed and abused at school for their race and culture is a bad thing. Could you people please realize that the same thing could, I don't know, happen to homosexual students? Stop giving haters priority.. and if you do, at least be freggin consistent and demand racial acceptance be removed from schools. Powerful.. magical.. e-e-e-eevil.. Last edited by Lullaby Chainer; May 3, 2007 at 10:00 pm. | |
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| Igneous Magma Posts: 365 | Zinkovich: I agree, it should be explained by the first year of middle school,(assuming seventh grade is middle school). But I would like the oppurtunity to teach my child on my own before the school does, and I'm not going to start explaining all sexual issues before fourth grade, let alone kindergarden Againstthewind: All caps is considering yelling, it is rude and a pain in the butt to read. Please be more considerate. Quote:
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Also, who are you to force everyone to adhere to your religious standards? My religion condemns sex before marriage, but you do not see me demanding a law to force that upon everyone. I understand that there is a difference between my government and my religion. My religion is personal, between myself and god. My government is public and must adhere to minimal standards that allow the offense or inconvience of the smallest amount of people. Seperation of church and state. Also, again, all that need be said to uphold your so-called christian values is that your god does not agree with it. This gives them their warning and is not offensive. How would you like to have a teacher say that god is an imaginary friend and that people who believe in him are crazy? You wouldn't because it contradicts your lifestyle. These lessons were simply taught in order to stop children from name calling those who have differing beliefs. Quote:
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| Molten Ash Posts: 132 | People can't control their feelings, but how they react. I can decide to have sex or not, or to wear a condom or not. The gay lifestyle is a death trap. The gay lifestyle is a choice, if a man decides to sleep with men, that is a choice. |
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| Igneous Magma Posts: 365 | You are correct, it is a choice to actually be sexually active as a gay man. Same as it is a choice to be sexually active as a straight man. However, outside of the bible(which most active gay men don't believe in anyways) what is there showing that homosexuality is wrong, and what evidence do you have to show that no one should practice? Also, please discuss the 'deathtrap' statement further. |
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| Molten Ash Posts: 132 | Rinoa, obviously you don't understand your Bible, it comments on everything we are facing today. If the Bible is not reliable then why has archaeology repeatedly verified its truthfulness? Proclaiming what God says in the Bible about homosexuality is not condemning a person, but the practice and the lifestyle. Also, didn't God send prophets to preach the coming judgement in Isaiah, Jeremiah and Ezekiel and to let people know about the coming judgement in the Gospels as well as the Revelation. Why does God send the two witnesses in Revelation 11 and why does God send Paul to talk about Christ and the fact that Christ came to save the world from sin? Why does Paul talk about the wrath of God being revealed against mankind in Romans 1:18-32 and why warns in Galatians 5:19-21 about flesh being unable to inherit the kingdom. In order to preach the Gospel message, we must preach and point out sin as the reason for Christ coming into the world to save us from the coming judgement because that is why they need to trust in Jesus (me too) and live our life for him. Jesus saved us by taking God's wrath upon himself. By doing that he opened the doors of heaven to the Jews and Gentiles. He died, was buried and was resurrected, all others stayed dead. Thus, by his resurrection he proclaimed victory over death, hell and the grave. If there was no judgement, Christ did that for naught, and my Jesus died to set captives free and I was once captive to homosexuality but now I am dedicated to fighting the battle for truth. Who said we will not face temptation? If I were a thief and tell people that stealing is wrong, I can identify with them because I used to be a thief. I can identify with a struggle of a gay man who wants out of that lifestyle and I can be used by God to help them, but they must be dependent on God and not their own strength or they will not succeed. If there is no such thing as judgement and we can't proclaim it, why did Christ speak against the Pharisees and talk about the coming judgement of the people who rejected him? Why does Jesus tell Jerusalem that he has longed to gather his children together like a hen gathers her chicks, but they would not? (mt 23:37) and about in verse 33 and 34 when he talks about the ones he himself will send to Jerusalem that they will crucify? Why does he proclaim God's Word? Proclaiming that sin is wrong is not judgement, it is stating a simple fact. sin is sin is sin and one is not higher than the other, God tells us homosexuality is wrong and it will not be tolerated by God, and therefore I don't tolerate it. I won't see it celebrated in my presence because it is morally wrong and I don't want to go back to the lifestyle God has delivered me from Last edited by againstthewind; May 4, 2007 at 02:57 pm. Reason: Wording and grammar |
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This is what I meant about religion being divisive. Sin, salvation, the concept of being god's chosen...all divide people, create artificial differences where there aren't any in the rational world. We all would like to feel special. Feeling special at the expense of other people is vanity. The Forum Rules Radical Atheist Heathen Queer Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be. (Ashleigh Brilliant) | ||||||
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As for your lack of tolerance, I'm sure there are other areas in which your sins should not be tolerated, perhaps you should look to yourself, worry about what should not be tolerated within you, rather than going after someone else. As for my lack of understanding you have yet to explain why jesus did not see fit to condemn(judge) the adulterer? Neither stone nor word was used, though word would not have been against roman law. If my understanding in that is incorrect, feel free to better explain it. I asked for evidence from outside the bible in order to prod you to seek evidence based in something that an atheist might believe in, look at it as finding something to 'help' someone not of your faith. The teachings god has had written often have reasons behind him that are discovered later. For instance(mormon) the LDS church received instruction to no longer smoke about a century before science proved it to be harmful, now science is backing that religious stance. | ||||||
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| Molten Ash Posts: 49 | I agree with usherwood on the whole age/ developmental issue. I would want my (one example) teen to know about HIV prevention, I would not want my 9 yr old, and certainly my 6 yr old, she would have no clue- what the big people are talking about! It goes further to just teach basic tolerance, in a generic way, which is how it should be anyways, since we don just want people to be tolerant of sexual orientation, we also want them to be tolerant of Cathollics, blacks, whites, mentally challenged people, etc etc. I think it restricts the greater overall picture to narrow it down and make it a sex orientation issue, small children wont be able to grasp that really, and may misunderstand what is being said, it could also imply to them it's ok to be mean to other groups. I see confusion, disorientation, even fear in youg children possibly as a result. I have studied child dev. and young children tend to become anxious or fearful if something is confusing to them. FOr ex, if they hear their parents whispering and have to guess what's it about, they will tend to think something bad. I think it should be kept easy to understand, generic, we are kind to everyone type of thing, -that they can understand. One thing I didnt agree with was the comparison of a 1 yr old girl saying 'God did' in reply to a question about who made the flowers, to an automaton. If you dont believe in God, that's fine, but why would a parent teaching a toddler about God make them an automaton. 1 yr olds tend to talk that way anyways -da-da go car, or mama kiss me, typ of talk, it's just how they talk... |
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| Moral Turnip Location: Oregon, US Posts: 2,283 | Quote:
![]() "Would you like some pie, Dr. Stark?" "Science is my pie. Curiosity, my sweet tooth. Knowledge is my candy." | |
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| Molten Ash Posts: 132 | Gay agenda and homosexuality my perspective, from the Biblical parameters This is it, you don't control who you are attracted to. I used to be gay. I am not anymore, simply because I say this makes people brand me on both sides as a homophobic bigot that can turn on any man at any time and take his anal virginity. That is how people look at me. By the gay community I am confused when I know that I am meant to have a wife, and a batch of children for which God created expressly for me, The heterosexual community is wary of me because I feel I can turn on a guy and make him gay. I am on this side, you can control yourself, not all gays sleep around but gays need to stop demonizing those who believe that one can walk away from homosexuality, Heterosexuals have it jsut about right, they are repulsed by the sexual implications and way of life that many gays have. Homosexuality is wrong, but homosexuals are worthy of love. Sexuality is sacred and of God, homosexuality is not sacred or worthy of observation in the least. Yes, there are homosexuals and we need to pray for them and hope against all hope that they can accept themselves as God created them to be, with the opposite sex and as stated in Genesis "be fruitful and multiply" (within God's ordained design of course). In no way am I implying that homosexuals are evil, it is the simple fact that homosexuality is not what God designed and not to be celebrated as a valid alternative to heterosexuality. God created sex (rather making love) to be between a MAN and his WIFE not 2 men or 2 women. Of course, I am expecting to be lambasted over this, I will not apologize to anyone for my theologically correct beliefs, don't believe the hype, any Christians that feel the same way? |
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| Molten Ash Posts: 132 | Gay agenda and homosexuality my perspective, from the Biblical parameters This is it, you don't control who you are attracted to but you do control yourself and your actions. I used to be gay. I am not anymore (2 Cor 5:17), simply because I say this makes people brand me on both sides as a homophobic bigot that can turn on any man at any time and take his anal virginity. That is how people look at me. By the gay community I am confused when I know that I am meant to have a wife, and a batch of children for which God created expressly for me, The heterosexual community is wary of me because I feel I can turn on a guy and make him gay. I am on this side, you can control yourself, not all gays sleep around but gays need to stop demonizing those who believe that one can walk away from homosexuality, Heterosexuals have it jsut about right, they are repulsed by the sexual implications and way of life that many gays have. Homosexuality is wrong, but homosexuals are worthy of love. Sexuality is sacred and of God, homosexuality is not sacred or worthy of observation in the least. Yes, there are homosexuals and we need to pray for them and hope against all hope that they can accept themselves as God created them to be, with the opposite sex and as stated in Genesis "be fruitful and multiply" (within God's ordained design of course). In no way am I implying that homosexuals are evil, it is the simple fact that homosexuality is not what God designed and not to be celebrated as a valid alternative to heterosexuality. God created sex (rather making love) to be between a MAN and his WIFE not 2 men or 2 women. Of course, I am expecting to be lambasted over this, I will not apologize to anyone for my theologically correct beliefs, don't believe the hype, any Christians that feel the same way? |
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| It's my first name! Location: Buffalo, New York, USA Posts: 3,523 | Quote:
For the record, I don't believe in "tolerance" or "diversity" or "political correctness." There are only two kinds of people in America: Americans and not Americans. "America does not go abroad in search of monsters to destroy. She is the well-wisher to freedom and independence of all. She is the champion and vindicator only of her own." -John Quincy Adams - | |
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![]() Natures 'D' Student Posts: 1,214 | Ya thats messed up. Gay & Lesbian pride day at a god damn elementary school? To me, the gay agenda is a movement to qualify deviancy as normal, all while hiding its true nature, and subverting an individual parents right to have their children raised in a manner conducive with their wishes. It has a lot to do with association. Not only do I have issue with the target demographics being small children, but I have issue with the associations that will be made. Gay & lesbian pride in action on our streets; ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes, I want my 8 year old learning about behavior like this. Tolerance is one thing. Sexual deviancy and gender swapping is a bit f*ckin far fetched a concept for a child that still believes in Santa Claus. I don't want my daughter learning tolerance for heterosexuals that behave this way any more that I want her learning about homosexuals that behave this way. And don't dare accuse me of being selective with these images. These sorts of scenes play out in great abundance at every gay &lesbian pride march. |
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| Molten Ash Posts: 132 | The fact is that it is deviancy and children shouldn't learn about this! Yes, people hate homosexuals instead of homosexuality and turn it into a person hatred as opposed to a hatred for the homosexual actions and things of the sort, but we can't subject children to that. Children should learn about the birds and the bees but in a way that is suitable for a child to learn it. Some parents look at flowers and find out how pollination works, it is male and female part not 2 of one, etc. |
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| formerly Isherwood Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 13,760 | Quote:
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The Forum Rules Radical Atheist Heathen Queer Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be. (Ashleigh Brilliant) | ||
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![]() Natures 'D' Student Posts: 1,214 | "teaching tolerance" is separate from teaching tolerance of homosexuals. The purposeful narrowing of the scope to exclude all other forms of intolerant behavior, and focus specifically on gays is indicative of an agenda being pushed. The use of the words "Gay & Lesbian pride" disturbs me deeply. Its other manifestations are insidious when you understand children as the target. Please view the pics I posted again, and than tell me if you think its appropriate for children to be taught tolerance of this behavior by way of word association. Listen to the little boy in the first video. His inability to digest what is being taught him is exactly why this is wrong. He is asked about tolerance and what it means. Then the child actually draws out an analogy. He say something to this effect; "Tolerance is like when you see a vegetable you have never tried before, you shouldn't not try it just because you don't know what it is". You see how thats kinda f*cked up, right? 9 years old and hes being taught homosexual experimentation by his school. |
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| 9/11: Inside Job Location: Hawai'i, Big Island Posts: 10,446 | Quote:
But then, I am the chairman of the school board for a little christian school. And I don't approve of taxing the public to pay for children's indoctrination by the State, ie., public school. I would not want my child told that my values are not correct. I will teach my child what she needs to know about tolerance. I'll teach her not to hate homos or target them in any way. Also not to think that all sex options are on the table and she may choose from the smorgasbord. She will be taught to go with her own feelings, not be tempted by sanctioned "experimentation." :rolleyes: "Arms in the hands of the citizens may be used at individual discretion for the defense of the country, the overthrow of tyranny or private self-defense." -- John Adams | |
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| Verbal dreadnaught Location: N.Y Posts: 91 | I understand why certain life scenarios would want to be explained to children but, unfortunately, the base word sex inof homo/hetero sexual relationships should not be taught to the youngest children in these videos. I, myself would dub the explanation of same sex couples as a "life lesson" that should/could be explained to the child by their parents or the couple in question if/when the situation calls for it. If this "education" is to be mandatory it should not be apon children this young IMHO. "Darkness!...gather to me! Yield unto me the unbridled fury of chaos!...... Gift unto me the indomitable power of rage!"......... ..................... and cookies and milk if ya got em':) |
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