i once defended gays quite heartily, and i still agree with giving them freedom and accepting them. but i was unfortunate enough to be accidentally shown a few seconds of homosexual porn by my bisexual friend in mixed company. it was disgusting and it haunted my mind for days. i want to be protected from seeing such things as i find them threatening and vomitous.
i know it does happen and i am not going to stop it but it's so wrong in so many ways. i will never look at gays the same way again. lesbians are still fairly untainted tho.
domestic partnerships with equal treatment under the law will adequately suffice in this situation. gay marraige is not necessary.
beyond that topic, why has america had such a hard-on for gays since like 1970? it's just not funny. drop the subject from media and public attention, i have no interest in emphasizing their existence any more than already has been.