
Oh...well then...with all "due" respect...we don't hit, nor justify hitting our wives here. Its just a thing with us called THE LAW!!! The act of hitting one's wife would come under the heading of ASSAULT!!! If you happen to live on this side of the pond, you'd do well to observe that particular LAW, as wife-beaters tend to get a rather bumpy RIDE in JAIL!
I hope you and Ala have a nice life together...

Response: Then according to your logic, if a woman takes her husband to court for tapping her on the shoulder the court would punish him. Again, the absurdity in your logic is uncanny. And if punishing people for light taping is your definition of a civilized world, than I can say on behalf of all civilized people that we are glad your world doesn't exists. You can continue to justify your slandering and condemnation to a harmless act if you want. It doesn't discredit Islam at all, but only draws attention to how fortunate we are for not being governed by your wicked ideology.
Qul Haatoo Burhaanakum in kuntum saadiqeen

Qul Haatoo Burhaanakum in kuntum saadiqeen
Tapping on the shoulder is not equal to hitting someone, lightly or not, as a punishment. You continue to justify your twisted beliefs by conflating punishment with harmless action, like tapping or freeze tag. If the hitting were equal to those, then why is hitting a wife considered punishment when those other actions are clearly not? You are not following any rational basis for your assertions as the hitting the quran prescribes is considered a punishment and thus must inherently have an effect more vast than a benign tap on someone's shoulder (which is not a punishment). It is interesting that you consider my ideology wicked as I have not deviated from the law of most civilized countries, so thus I do not know on behalf of which civilized country you speak. If you think it is logical to physically punish a woman who does not possess the equal power under the quran to do the same to her husband, then I suggest, if you actually are in a civilized country, you prepare for lawsuit in family law, under any jurisdiction not under the tyranny of the quran, following the pursuit of these actions if anyone speaks up. It is illegal, and it is domestic violence, and there are no shades of grey here. It would be interesting to hear someone try to convince the court that the quran, or a god or whatever, lets him hit his wife so it is ok. It would be a pretty fast guilty charge. But I suppose Taqiyya would allow him to lie under any threatening circumstances right?
I can not believe someone knows all this and still follows this illogic.

Exactly what is the point of 'lightly tapping' someone if not to cause pain as a punishment? You are poorly justifying Islam's stated intention of keeping its women subservient to the men, with repercussions for disobedience that include physical abuse.
A man said to the universe:
"Sir, I exist!"
"However," replied the universe,
"The fact has not created in me
A sense of obligation."
-- Stephen Crane

Response: You should be answering the same questions in which you ask. For it is your cruel ideology which suggests that hitting someone lightly in which causes no pain or marks is abuse. To top it off, you repeat the sadistic claim that this is the view of most civilized. Then you and your alleged civilized people need to seek the first psychiatric hospital as soon as possible and get a reality check. Your slandering and condemnation of an act which causes no physical harm and calling for it to be punishable by law if acted out is the crime. If light hitting which causes no pain or marks is a severe crime then according to your logic, every football player to ever make a tackle should be put away for life. Every child to ever play tag is a criminal. Your ideology is sadistic and has no place for any civilized society.
Qul Haatoo Burhaanakum in kuntum saadiqeen

Response: To the contrary, you're poorly justifying your slander and condemnation on a harmless act. For a hit which causes no pain or marks can never be considered abusive or keeping a woman subservient to men to any reasonable and moral person. What is your ruling on a parent who spanks their child as a discipline act, like many parents do, without leaving a mark or causing pain? Are you suggesting that all of these parents are ruthless and immoral? That they should be punished? Even most of the people here were either spanked and as parents spank themselves. That makes you unjust and ruthless people too right.?
Qul Haatoo Burhaanakum in kuntum saadiqeen
Sorry, it is not my opinion, it is the law. If it caused no harm then it would not be a punishment. What standard is set to the amount of force that can be applied in hitting as per the rule in the quran? Are there quran police who make sure that every hit is equal to a light tap? Think about why a husband would hit his wife as a punishment - he would have to be angry as she would have had to do something wrong. This would cause someone to be aggressive and to lose a bit of self control. So your suggestion that the standard of hitting will always merely be equivalent to a tap is outrageous. It is 100% domestic violence according to the law, just like any other unnecessary force within a marriage. They are wives not children - although I do think spanking may be a bit excessive too. Football and tapping are not punishments; football is a sport, and a light tap is to grab someone's attention. Neither are done to ammend any wrongdoing and have completely different purposes to hitting someone out of punishment. A husband putting his hands on his wife as a punishment is, without question, domestic violence and is illegal according to most civilized jurisdictions. You can believe it or not, argue or not, but this is not my opinion and if you do not like the law, then lobby for its change. I doubt you will get very far as the rest of the world has made it clear that the nearly unanimous opinion on domestic violence is that it is inherently wrong.
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