Everyone needs a little space to be their self and to follow their own private dreams - but should one of the partners in a marrage give that up to for the sake of the other?
Can one be married and still feel and be independent? It that wise or unwise?
Is it better for a married couple to do everything together during their off work schedlues?
Now I am sure that our religious folks will pull out a few scriptures that would normally say no (as the scriptures seldom say yes). And that at least the woman should give up all her rights for independence when she takes the marrage vow.
So it is up to the philosophy members of the forum to come up the pro and con ideas about this topic.
PS - But Christians are not banned from stating their viewpoints also.