Techno,
I think it's tough to say whether that guy was qualified to write a book about marriage. As a married man, I think I am qualified to write a book about how to endure constant brainwashing! But there are often times when people have become TOO 'in the thick' of things to be able to write an accurate and objective report of something. My description of marriage *certainly* wouldn't be objective, but it would be informed. Perhaps the best thing is to get a Phd and someone who's been there and let them write the book together?!
As for the "out of the blue" idea... you're freakin me out again!
I do the exact same thing when I'm looking for something I've lost!
But the trouble is there are two ways of looking at what is going on here. You can talk psychology... The unconscious mind is powerful, and always working away at things in the background. If you actually stop and listen with a clear mind, it will give you the most likely location for something and it will almost always be right, even when you seem to think it's something you couldn't possibly have known. Or you could talk about it more spiritually. It could be part of a psychic ability within you.
Personally, I know there are always at least two opposing interpretations of something. You can choose to look at it scientifically or spiritually... but in the end I really don't think knowing how/why matters. In fact, not only does it not matter, but it might even be a hinderence.
There are many aspects of life that are not meant to be understood or philosophised about. It's like watching a magic performer... knowing how the trick works spoils everything...
At the end of the day if you have the ability to just sit in a quiet place and come to know things 'out of the blue'... well then just get on and enjoy it - don't question it too much, or do anything that might spoil the magic. Just let it happen.
I'm guessing ahead of time that you agree!
~ Org.

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