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asterix404 · May 9, 2005, 12:27 am

Good bad indifferent? Many types of sex, many tpyes of people who have it... I happen to love it with some people and think it's boring for others. I happen to like oral sex, and think that it's a wonderful thing. I am a man and I am bi. I however am not willing to do anal at all cuz I think that isn't very... well it doesn't apeal to me. Does this make me any less bi? I think that is it very spiritual and should be reserved only for people who you can totally give yourself to. What is the fun in tons of random sex with people you don't love? I know a lot of people love it but I am cerious as to why. BTW I put this in here becasue I didn't know where else to put it... and also if there are people with... disserning interestests who think that this is a wonderful place to hate people... get the fuck out.

Runa216 · May 12, 2005, 04:16 pm

to me, I find sex to be an enjoyable activity no more holy than going to a movie. I think you CAN go to a movie or have sex with anyone, and I advocate mass pleasure, but I would much rather go to a movie with someone I feel strongly about. I can see why people consider sex the holiest of pleasure, but to me, the way I see it, if you want to have sex with multiple partners, all the power to you. I would prefer to do it with someone I feel special with, but if some random chick came up to me "I desperately want to have sex, will you have sex with me?" I'd be inclined to say yes if I was single.

Runa

Prometheus · May 20, 2005, 04:23 pm

I don't think there are many people who really beleive that sex is inherently bad. The quibbling is over when it is appropriate.

trixmix · May 23, 2005, 09:08 pm

Who knows anymore what 'sex' is about...It started off as a means of procreation...but it's turned into so much more than that...what draws the line between liking sex, and being perverse?
What is nymphomaniacal to some is normal to others...I guess.

Nono · May 24, 2005, 11:26 am

Well it wouldn't promote procreation very well if there weren't some Big Added Attraction, which leads to endless complication, don't it?

The thing to bear in mind is that the most important sex organ is the one between your ears.

gr8fuldaniel · May 24, 2005, 12:22 pm

Sex is such a powerful instinct! It drives us to have sex with people we really dont even respect. Why would a person have unprotected sex with anyone we are not prepared to make a lifelong committment to? I am not talking about gay sex, they dont have to worry about that.
I had 3 friends, 2 guys and a girl. Both had sex with the girl. They both swore they always wore protection, the girl swore she had sex with nobody else. One of the 2 guys got her pregnant. The two guys were both my best friends, so I witnessed the whole soap opera unfolding. One friend got a DNA test pretty fast, the other was positive it wasnt him so he didnt get the test. It wasnt long before everyone was just assuming he was the daddy, so he ended up getting the test also. It was like 300 bucks so you cant blame him for putting it off. Finally, after about 6 months the ordeal was over. She had been screwing her ex-husband. What a hay ride though! To think after all of that, a couple years later I had unprotected sex with a woman who I didnt really want in my life forever. I think with the wrong head so often. Thank God, sex isnt as driving a need- as it used to be!
Sex can be a few minutes of pleasure resulting in a lifelong committment. With somebody you dont want to spend 10 minutes with!
Big Dumb Sex can be very DUMB!

**Pooeypants** · May 24, 2005, 12:34 pm

I haven't had a shag yet so I don't really know what to say.

...

Yup, I just wasted 5 to 10 seconds of your life (depending on how fast you read)

tinybear · May 24, 2005, 12:51 pm

Quote:

Quote by: gr8fuldaniel

Sex is such a powerful instinct! It drives us to have sex with people we really dont even respect. Why would a person have unprotected sex with anyone we are not prepared to make a lifelong committment to? I am not talking about gay sex, they dont have to worry about that.
I had 3 friends, 2 guys and a girl. Both had sex with the girl. They both swore they always wore protection, the girl swore she had sex with nobody else. One of the 2 guys got her pregnant. The two guys were both my best friends, so I witnessed the whole soap opera unfolding. One friend got a DNA test pretty fast, the other was positive it wasnt him so he didnt get the test. It wasnt long before everyone was just assuming he was the daddy, so he ended up getting the test also. It was like 300 bucks so you cant blame him for putting it off. Finally, after about 6 months the ordeal was over. She had been screwing her ex-husband. What a hay ride though! To think after all of that, a couple years later I had unprotected sex with a woman who I didnt really want in my life forever. I think with the wrong head so often. Thank God, sex isnt as driving a need- as it used to be!
Sex can be a few minutes of pleasure resulting in a lifelong committment. With somebody you dont want to spend 10 minutes with!
Big Dumb Sex can be very DUMB!

You have interesting friends. :rolleyes:

tinybear · May 24, 2005, 12:53 pm

Quote:

Quote by: Pooeypants

I haven't had a shag yet so I don't really know what to say.

...

Yup, I just wasted 5 to 10 seconds of your life (depending on how fast you read)

I'm saving sex for marriage; which means that I might never have any. I don't know what I'm doing in this thread.

How many seconds of your life have I wasted?

**Pooeypants** · May 24, 2005, 01:10 pm

Quote:

Quote by: tinybear

I'm saving sex for marriage; which means that I might never have any. I don't know what I'm doing in this thread.

How many seconds of your life have I wasted?

About 4 seconds, I read fast. Heck, I wasted nearly a minute thinking and typing this reply.

No sex before marriage huh? Is it another thing that your daddy told you to do?

tinybear · May 24, 2005, 01:51 pm

Didn't your mummy tell you the same thing?

**Pooeypants** · May 24, 2005, 01:57 pm

Quote:

Quote by: tinybear

Didn't your mummy tell you the same thing?

Nope... My parents couldn't give a donkeys. Infact, my mum wants me to get a girlfriend, something about getting experience...I had to shut her up fast. Jez, freakin' embarassing or what? My sisters couldn't stop laughing...

Prometheus · May 24, 2005, 05:54 pm

Quote:

Thank God, sex isnt as driving a need- as it used to be!

Speak for yourself. Some of us are still primative sex-crazed horndogs.

trixmix · May 24, 2005, 10:26 pm

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thank god sex isn't as driving a need-as it used to be.

Um....I beg to differ with you there pal!

Nono · May 25, 2005, 10:33 am

How about getting sex over with before marriage?

IndieC · May 25, 2005, 10:46 am

Lol, well, this IS an interesting topic.

I haven't either Pooeypants, and my mum is the same. She gave me a bag on condoms before i came to uni (to make it more embarassing they were flavoured!)... Talk about encouragement. She even explained to me that it was a vital part of life to have sex, so long as its protected until you get married anyway...

However, although i used to crave sex, and thought like some of the other people posting about having sex with a sex craved girl who came up and asked, i have changed, and now don't believe you should before marriage either. First, imagine when you do! Two sex-craved people who really love each other getting together! You wouldn't see them for days on end! Doesn't that sound like fun? It reminds me of bunnies... anyway, that's one reason, and the other is because of the life-long commitment which you make when you get married. It doesn't matter if you get a baby once you're married, even by accident, simply because you have already pledged to be together "until death dost thou depart".

Nono · May 25, 2005, 11:47 am

It'll be plenty of fun in any case. It isn't as if pre-marital sex made you jaded or anything. If you can live without it, more power to you. But if you can't, just be sure to take precautions against undesired consequences (including the emotional...).

**Pooeypants** · May 25, 2005, 11:51 am

Oh, it's not that I've decided I don't want sex till I'm married, it's just that I'm so damned lazy and girls cost money.

Heh IndieC, I can just about imagine your face when your mum handed you those condoms...ouchies.

IndieC · May 25, 2005, 11:55 am

Lol, i'm kinda used to it by now... if i had been old enough, she would have taken me to a strip-tease when she went with her friend. Can you imagine that!? I mean... last year she came back from a night out at about 7 in the morning, when i was leaving for school!

She's just crazy... and very fun to have as a mum...

tman_ndsu08 · May 25, 2005, 01:33 pm

Sex is the fundamental function of species survival. Crossing genes to form new types of genes in order to combate the changing climate is...well...the definition of surviving.

As such, extreme chemical rewards are given by the brain when sexual nerves are stimulated.

What do I think about that? *shrug*

May 9, 2005, 12:27 am	#1 (permalink) (top)
asterix404 Igneous Magma Posts: 257	sex Good bad indifferent? Many types of sex, many tpyes of people who have it... I happen to love it with some people and think it's boring for others. I happen to like oral sex, and think that it's a wonderful thing. I am a man and I am bi. I however am not willing to do anal at all cuz I think that isn't very... well it doesn't apeal to me. Does this make me any less bi? I think that is it very spiritual and should be reserved only for people who you can totally give yourself to. What is the fun in tons of random sex with people you don't love? I know a lot of people love it but I am cerious as to why. BTW I put this in here becasue I didn't know where else to put it... and also if there are people with... disserning interestests who think that this is a wonderful place to hate people... get the fuck out.

May 20, 2005, 04:23 pm	#3 (permalink) (top)
Prometheus Glad to be back! Location: Vernal, UT Posts: 1,725	I don't think there are many people who really beleive that sex is inherently bad. The quibbling is over when it is appropriate. Fixed ideas are like a cramp in the foot - the best remedy against it is to tread on it. -Søren Kierkegaard

May 23, 2005, 09:08 pm	#4 (permalink) (top)
trixmix Molten Ash Location: Orange County, California Posts: 118	Who knows anymore what 'sex' is about...It started off as a means of procreation...but it's turned into so much more than that...what draws the line between liking sex, and being perverse? What is nymphomaniacal to some is normal to others...I guess. Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools talk because they have to say something. -- Plato [CENTER]and some Latin food for thought! [/CENTER] [CENTER]Si vis pacem, para bellum! [/CENTER]

May 24, 2005, 11:26 am	#5 (permalink) (top)
Nono Throbbing Member Location: Old Europe Posts: 7,152	Well it wouldn't promote procreation very well if there weren't some Big Added Attraction, which leads to endless complication, don't it? The thing to bear in mind is that the most important sex organ is the one between your ears. "I wish I was as cocksure of anything as Tom Macaulay is of everything." -- Viscount Melbourne

May 24, 2005, 12:22 pm	#6 (permalink) (top)
gr8fuldaniel Fire the Liars Location: California Posts: 7,090	Sex is such a powerful instinct! It drives us to have sex with people we really dont even respect. Why would a person have unprotected sex with anyone we are not prepared to make a lifelong committment to? I am not talking about gay sex, they dont have to worry about that. I had 3 friends, 2 guys and a girl. Both had sex with the girl. They both swore they always wore protection, the girl swore she had sex with nobody else. One of the 2 guys got her pregnant. The two guys were both my best friends, so I witnessed the whole soap opera unfolding. One friend got a DNA test pretty fast, the other was positive it wasnt him so he didnt get the test. It wasnt long before everyone was just assuming he was the daddy, so he ended up getting the test also. It was like 300 bucks so you cant blame him for putting it off. Finally, after about 6 months the ordeal was over. She had been screwing her ex-husband. What a hay ride though! To think after all of that, a couple years later I had unprotected sex with a woman who I didnt really want in my life forever. I think with the wrong head so often. Thank God, sex isnt as driving a need- as it used to be! Sex can be a few minutes of pleasure resulting in a lifelong committment. With somebody you dont want to spend 10 minutes with! Big Dumb Sex can be very DUMB! ~~ Helpful Linx * Huff Post * WRH * RAW STORY ~~

May 12, 2005, 04:16 pm	#2 (permalink) (top)
Runa216 Igneous Magma Posts: 208	to me, I find sex to be an enjoyable activity no more holy than going to a movie. I think you CAN go to a movie or have sex with anyone, and I advocate mass pleasure, but I would much rather go to a movie with someone I feel strongly about. I can see why people consider sex the holiest of pleasure, but to me, the way I see it, if you want to have sex with multiple partners, all the power to you. I would prefer to do it with someone I feel special with, but if some random chick came up to me "I desperately want to have sex, will you have sex with me?" I'd be inclined to say yes if I was single. Runa

May 24, 2005, 12:34 pm	#7 (permalink) (top)
Pooeypants Neo Moderator Location: England Posts: 5,609	I haven't had a shag yet so I don't really know what to say. ... Yup, I just wasted 5 to 10 seconds of your life (depending on how fast you read) War is Peace Freedom is Slavery Ignorance is strength Harness the power of Ingsoc, then you can capture someone killed the year before

May 24, 2005, 01:51 pm	#11 (permalink) (top)
tinybear Volcanic Erupter Location: Hong Kong (for now) Posts: 7,103	Didn't your mummy tell you the same thing?

May 25, 2005, 10:33 am	#15 (permalink) (top)
Nono Throbbing Member Location: Old Europe Posts: 7,152	How about getting sex over with before marriage? "I wish I was as cocksure of anything as Tom Macaulay is of everything." -- Viscount Melbourne

May 25, 2005, 10:46 am	#16 (permalink) (top)
IndieC Igneous Magma Location: UK Posts: 303	Lol, well, this IS an interesting topic. I haven't either Pooeypants, and my mum is the same. She gave me a bag on condoms before i came to uni (to make it more embarassing they were flavoured!)... Talk about encouragement. She even explained to me that it was a vital part of life to have sex, so long as its protected until you get married anyway... However, although i used to crave sex, and thought like some of the other people posting about having sex with a sex craved girl who came up and asked, i have changed, and now don't believe you should before marriage either. First, imagine when you do! Two sex-craved people who really love each other getting together! You wouldn't see them for days on end! Doesn't that sound like fun? It reminds me of bunnies... anyway, that's one reason, and the other is because of the life-long commitment which you make when you get married. It doesn't matter if you get a baby once you're married, even by accident, simply because you have already pledged to be together "until death dost thou depart". "Never before in the history of warfare had destruction been so indiscriminate and universal" - makes you think of Hiroshima... -H.G. Wells, The War of the Worlds

May 25, 2005, 11:47 am	#17 (permalink) (top)
Nono Throbbing Member Location: Old Europe Posts: 7,152	It'll be plenty of fun in any case. It isn't as if pre-marital sex made you jaded or anything. If you can live without it, more power to you. But if you can't, just be sure to take precautions against undesired consequences (including the emotional...). "I wish I was as cocksure of anything as Tom Macaulay is of everything." -- Viscount Melbourne

May 25, 2005, 11:51 am	#18 (permalink) (top)
Pooeypants Neo Moderator Location: England Posts: 5,609	Oh, it's not that I've decided I don't want sex till I'm married, it's just that I'm so damned lazy and girls cost money. Heh IndieC, I can just about imagine your face when your mum handed you those condoms...ouchies. War is Peace Freedom is Slavery Ignorance is strength Harness the power of Ingsoc, then you can capture someone killed the year before

May 25, 2005, 11:55 am	#19 (permalink) (top)
IndieC Igneous Magma Location: UK Posts: 303	Lol, i'm kinda used to it by now... if i had been old enough, she would have taken me to a strip-tease when she went with her friend. Can you imagine that!? I mean... last year she came back from a night out at about 7 in the morning, when i was leaving for school! She's just crazy... and very fun to have as a mum... "Never before in the history of warfare had destruction been so indiscriminate and universal" - makes you think of Hiroshima... -H.G. Wells, The War of the Worlds

May 25, 2005, 01:33 pm	#20 (permalink) (top)
tman_ndsu08 BANNED Posts: 5,021	Sex is the fundamental function of species survival. Crossing genes to form new types of genes in order to combate the changing climate is...well...the definition of surviving. As such, extreme chemical rewards are given by the brain when sexual nerves are stimulated. What do I think about that? shrug