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SceneThatRawwr · May 1, 2008, 06:44 pm

hii soo confused all my friends says its not good, but at a drunk party i did stuff with a 13 yr girl my 15 friends mate but she doesnt look 13 she looks 17 n is soo hot n i really wanna see her again she dumped her bf for me after the night what should i do?? opinion plz??
xxxxx

SceneThatRawwr · May 1, 2008, 07:05 pm

???????????????

**Matt W** · May 1, 2008, 07:07 pm

You seen her without her makeup & stuff? She's 13. You're not. I would back off.

gela · May 1, 2008, 07:14 pm

Truth is that psychologically, girls start maturing before guys do.

You to are probably on the same mental level.

LadiesMan217 · May 1, 2008, 07:29 pm

So that would make you like a sophomore and her a 7th grader or something. I would think that was weird if I was going to your school and I would have thought that anyone who needs to go that many grades lower to get a chick was kind of pathetic.

SceneThatRawwr · May 1, 2008, 07:37 pm

but shes hotter than anyone in my year?? n looks 17 n is like my prefect match, n is better than the 3 other girls n boy who ive dated my age

LadiesMan217 · May 1, 2008, 07:41 pm

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but shes hotter than anyone in my year?? n looks 17 n is like my prefect match, n is better than the 3 other girls n boy who ive dated my age

Sorry man, thats just the way people think about stuff like that, now if the ages were reversed and you were the younger one, then I would thin you were the man, but they are not and I don't. Try to get with a Senior or something.

Thanatos · May 1, 2008, 07:47 pm

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Quote by: SceneThatRawwr

hii soo confused all my friends says its not good, but at a drunk party i did stuff with a 13 yr girl my 15 friends mate but she doesnt look 13 she looks 17 n is soo hot n i really wanna see her again she dumped her bf for me after the night what should i do?? opinion plz??
xxxxx

You just committed 2nd degree statutory rape if you live in Alabama and are eligible for 2 to 20 years in prison. You also just posted a confession in a public forum.

Different states have different laws, so to find out just how badly your life is about to suck go to this website. Its an index of statutory rape laws by state.

Statutory Rape Laws by State

You may also want to consider hiring a lawyer, or fleeing the country.

SoylentGreen · May 1, 2008, 09:25 pm

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but shes hotter than anyone in my year?? n looks 17 n is like my prefect match, n is better than the 3 other girls n boy who ive dated my age

Have you talked to her about it? Only this time try somewhere a little more quieter than a drunk party.
Take her out to dinner and talk about it. Try to figure out if it's all about the penis or has she got something else worth sticking around for.

Maryjane · May 2, 2008, 05:41 pm

I'd advise your parents put a password on their cpu.

Kamehameha34 · May 5, 2008, 05:19 pm

You could have just waited a year. Plenty of freshmen girls have senior boyfriends, who are at least 3 years older.

tommy5x · May 5, 2008, 05:26 pm

Personally, given certain conditions, I have no issue with it, but socially, HELL NO! Keep the hell away from the jailbait.

Simonius · May 5, 2008, 05:34 pm

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Quote by: Thanatos

You just committed 2nd degree statutory rape if you live in Alabama and are eligible for 2 to 20 years in prison. You also just posted a confession in a public forum.

Different states have different laws, so to find out just how badly your life is about to suck go to this website. Its an index of statutory rape laws by state.

Statutory Rape Laws by State

You may also want to consider hiring a lawyer, or fleeing the country.

Well hopefully he is from the UK where his 'crime' will be ignored.

All I can say is good luck mate, what you do is up to you!

Morality Games · May 5, 2008, 07:43 pm

If there is nothing illegal about pursuing a relationship with this girl, full speed ahead, what is age but a number? If illegal, I would advise steering clear.

Although there are other obstacles aside from age ...

Thanatos · May 5, 2008, 08:15 pm

...I hope I didn't scare the OP off. Now we'll never know what happened to him.

BTW, I've been poking around and Volconvo has tolerated much worse than you without going to the cops so you're probably safe posting here if you're reading this, Scene. You should see the pedophile thread. You also only admitted that you "did stuff" and wisely omitted exactly which "stuff".

Morality Games · May 5, 2008, 08:35 pm

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Quote by: Thanatos

...I hope I didn't scare the OP off. Now we'll never know what happened to him.

BTW, I've been poking around and Volconvo has tolerated much worse than you without going to the cops so you're probably safe posting here if you're reading this, Scene. You should see the pedophile thread. You also only admitted that you "did stuff" and wisely omitted exactly which "stuff".

At any rate, you taught him an invaluable lesson -- never confide your secrets, hopes, or fears to other people, especially not on the Internet, because the truth is, nobody cares about you and somewhere out there exists a soulless bureaucracy which delights in putting down the kid who was drunk.

Anmon · May 5, 2008, 10:10 pm

Easy done, I blame it on the silly girls playing woman, and seeing if they can pull it off.
You also wonder what kind of parents allow their little teen age daughters to go out with make up on, definitely not healthy minded ones.
Although theres only three years between you, this counts for alot when one has just reached the first years of puberty, and the other one is almost an adult.
If you were 18 and she was 15 it wouldnt be so bad.

krisma1 · May 6, 2008, 01:43 am

Normally three years isn't an uncommon age gap between two lovers; however, considering how young you are, the circumstances are slightly different. You two are at very different places in your life. You know? There is nothing wrong with having feelings for her; its perfectly natural, but if I were you I wouldn't be so quick to act upon them. You could always take the risk, but ultimately it seems like you would end up hurting.

gela · May 6, 2008, 06:20 am

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You also wonder what kind of parents allow their little teen age daughters to go out with make up on, definitely not healthy minded ones.

lol. You are so old fashioned

Walrus · May 6, 2008, 06:54 am

When I was seventeen (a long time ago), I had a girlfriend who was just fourteen. We went round to each others houses, hung out together, I got on with her parents, it was no big deal, no one pointed accusing fingers at me, she was just my girlfriend.

May 1, 2008, 06:44 pm	#1 (permalink) (top)
SceneThatRawwr Sedimentary Rock Posts: 9	16 yr old boy n 13 girl old, sick? =S hii soo confused all my friends says its not good, but at a drunk party i did stuff with a 13 yr girl my 15 friends mate but she doesnt look 13 she looks 17 n is soo hot n i really wanna see her again she dumped her bf for me after the night what should i do?? opinion plz?? xxxxx <33 Drop dead, Hadouken! n Oli

May 1, 2008, 07:05 pm	#2 (permalink) (top)
SceneThatRawwr Sedimentary Rock Posts: 9	??????????????? <33 Drop dead, Hadouken! n Oli

May 1, 2008, 07:07 pm	#3 (permalink) (top)
Matt W Moderator Location: Reading, UK. Posts: 5,718	You seen her without her makeup & stuff? She's 13. You're not. I would back off. I spent a lot of money on booze, birds and fast cars. The rest I just squandered. -George Best, on being asked what he did with his footballing fortunes.

May 1, 2008, 07:14 pm	#4 (permalink) (top)
gela Vampire Location: Newcastle, Australia Posts: 728	Truth is that psychologically, girls start maturing before guys do. You to are probably on the same mental level. "A geek is a person, male or female, with an abiding, obsessive, self-effacing, even self-destroying love for something besides status." --D.B. Weiss, Lucky Wander Boy

May 1, 2008, 07:29 pm	#5 (permalink) (top)
LadiesMan217 MoreThanMeetsTheEye Location: Earth, Solar System Posts: 321	So that would make you like a sophomore and her a 7th grader or something. I would think that was weird if I was going to your school and I would have thought that anyone who needs to go that many grades lower to get a chick was kind of pathetic. No sacrifice, No victory

May 1, 2008, 07:37 pm	#6 (permalink) (top)
SceneThatRawwr Sedimentary Rock Posts: 9	but shes hotter than anyone in my year?? n looks 17 n is like my prefect match, n is better than the 3 other girls n boy who ive dated my age <33 Drop dead, Hadouken! n Oli

May 2, 2008, 05:41 pm	#10 (permalink) (top)
Maryjane Amused Location: Mid Atlantic Posts: 1,017	I'd advise your parents put a password on their cpu. That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong. W. J. H. Boetcker

May 5, 2008, 05:19 pm	#11 (permalink) (top)
Kamehameha34 The dingos! Posts: 4,167	You could have just waited a year. Plenty of freshmen girls have senior boyfriends, who are at least 3 years older.

May 5, 2008, 05:26 pm	#12 (permalink) (top)
tommy5x Erudite Location: England Posts: 123	Personally, given certain conditions, I have no issue with it, but socially, HELL NO! Keep the hell away from the jailbait. When the time comes, that no more can be said, say no more.

May 5, 2008, 07:43 pm	#14 (permalink) (top)
Morality Games Igneous Magma Location: Iowa Posts: 569	If there is nothing illegal about pursuing a relationship with this girl, full speed ahead, what is age but a number? If illegal, I would advise steering clear. Although there are other obstacles aside from age ... If love were all good, then it would be too boring to keep everyone's interest for as long as it has. -- K. H. Y. Everything that can be said, can be said clearly. -- Ludwig Wittgenstein

May 5, 2008, 08:15 pm	#15 (permalink) (top)
Thanatos Igneous Magma Location: New Hampshire Posts: 670	...I hope I didn't scare the OP off. Now we'll never know what happened to him. BTW, I've been poking around and Volconvo has tolerated much worse than you without going to the cops so you're probably safe posting here if you're reading this, Scene. You should see the pedophile thread. You also only admitted that you "did stuff" and wisely omitted exactly which "stuff". Destroying America one Volconvo post at a time. If you've ever come close to having a coronary about whether or not people walked on the moon you probably have a small penis.

May 5, 2008, 10:10 pm	#17 (permalink) (top)
Anmon BANNED Location: between the good and the bad Posts: 1,330	Easy done, I blame it on the silly girls playing woman, and seeing if they can pull it off. You also wonder what kind of parents allow their little teen age daughters to go out with make up on, definitely not healthy minded ones. Although theres only three years between you, this counts for alot when one has just reached the first years of puberty, and the other one is almost an adult. If you were 18 and she was 15 it wouldnt be so bad.

May 6, 2008, 01:43 am	#18 (permalink) (top)
krisma1 Sedimentary Rock Posts: 5	Normally three years isn't an uncommon age gap between two lovers; however, considering how young you are, the circumstances are slightly different. You two are at very different places in your life. You know? There is nothing wrong with having feelings for her; its perfectly natural, but if I were you I wouldn't be so quick to act upon them. You could always take the risk, but ultimately it seems like you would end up hurting.

May 6, 2008, 06:54 am	#20 (permalink) (top)
Walrus Cabbages and Kings Location: England Posts: 113	When I was seventeen (a long time ago), I had a girlfriend who was just fourteen. We went round to each others houses, hung out together, I got on with her parents, it was no big deal, no one pointed accusing fingers at me, she was just my girlfriend. If there were in the world today any large number of people who desired their own happiness more than they desired the unhappiness of others, we could have paradise in a few years. Bertrand Russell