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| Hot Lava Posts: 1,372 | Quote:
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| Hot Lava Posts: 1,372 | Quote:
We won't ask you if you're straight but if you choose to tell then we kick you out. Like that? TC | |
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| Hot Lava Posts: 1,372 | Let me add that, as naval history shows, even otherwise heterosexual men can turn to homosexual activity when women are unavailable. In other words, even if you're straight as an arrow, Roy's naked butt in the shower might start looking pretty good to you after a few months at sea. TC |
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| formerly Isherwood Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 14,078 | Quote:
The Forum Rules Radical Atheist Heathen Queer Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be. (Ashleigh Brilliant) | |
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| Altruism Assassin Location: Massachusetts Posts: 5,325 | Women do not play a combat role in units like the Israeli Paratroopers brigade, they rather play support roles that don't involve the situations I stated, like instructors and parachute riggers. “Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former.” -Albert Einstein |
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Advice: Learn the difference between Public and Private, and how to distinguish between the two. Then try growing some duck feathers. | ||||
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![]() Moderator Location: Reading, UK. Posts: 7,105 | Let's drop the personal comments, please. Move on.
I spent a lot of money on booze, birds and fast cars. The rest I just squandered. -George Best, on being asked what he did with his footballing fortunes. | |
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| Hot Lava Posts: 1,372 | As per the mod's request, I will disregard this attack. Quote:
There's also the typically libertarian error of confusing the private with the personal. Who I choose to befriend, to dislike, to hang out with, or to make love to, is strictly personal. It is my business alone, not the government's and not my boss's. If they try to meddle, it is a violation of my core privacy rights and should be prosecuted to the full extent of civil and criminal law. When I start patronizing businesses, hiring employees, and otherwise participating in the economy, it is no longer personal, it is merely private. It is a part of the private sector as opposed to the public, but it's not just about me. Rather, it necessarily has an effect on others that is not protected by my veil of personal privacy. So if I fire Bob because I find out he's gay, this isn't just my personal choice, and my property rights do not allow me to step on his human and civil rights. As for "shop elsewhere", add "work elsewhere" and "live elsewhere". This isn't a matter of free association, we're talking about basic protections that let you live a normal life. It's also different from free speech, where we are usually compelled to just hold our noses and wait for the unpleasantness to pass. These aren't just words, it's real economic harm. This is equally the case whether it's in the private or public sector, so the law should not distinguish between the two. Quote:
Unless, of course, the real issue here is homophobia. Oh, no, that gay dude's looking at my package! I'm gonna die!!!! Whatever. Quote:
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| formerly Isherwood Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 14,078 | Here's a thought on this topic that I haven't seen addressed. Perhaps someone who has served more recently than I can say if this is still true. As I mentioned, I enlisted (yup, beat the draft by enlisting...pretty smart, huh?) in the early 70s. I was not openly gay at that time, but I knew pretty well what interested me. Basic training was the only time we all bunked and showered together. I'm willing to bet anyone who has gone through basic will agree with me when I say that I can't remember once thinking about sex in basic. There's no time. Every moment of your day is filled with physical activity that could hardly be considered exciting. When you finally stumble off to bed, you're far too exhausted to want to do anything but sleep. Six hours later you're back at training. After basic you go to school, where the barracks are more dormitory-like. Males and females are barracked on the same floor. Since everyone's an adult (legally), separation was left to the individual. Gay or straight, everyone I knew was discreet and respectful about coupling. Granted, this was an MI unit. Conditions may have been different for my brethren in infantry units. The Forum Rules Radical Atheist Heathen Queer Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be. (Ashleigh Brilliant) |
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| Hot Lava Posts: 1,372 | Quote:
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| Liberated thinker Location: New Mexican Alps Posts: 2,268 | IMNSHO what many seem to ignore is the fact that military organizations over the years have been built around a hierarchy of discipline. Homosexuality has only been legally recognized in this country in the past few years. Until then sexual proclivities were legally limited to hetrosexual unions and in combat units the sexes were not mixed.. The idea seemed to be built around the maintenance of disciplne. Leaders have less trouble giving orders to someone they are not sexually involved with, than someone they love or are sexually involved with! Favoritism is suggested in such a relationship not the ability pull a trigger or deliberately kill another human. Not to deny personal likes and dislikes(favortism) are involved between members of any organization. But more intense physicaland emotional relationships are more likely to inhibit the assignment of tasks and the need for more exacting control and impartality in an life or death situations? The military is unique and it is not a social organization. It is not designed like other societies for the preferences of the individual,rather than the mission of the unit. In the cutting edge fighting units decisions can be vital and must be unmarred by emotional attachments. The rights of indiviiduals must be subordinated to the mission> Thus we play the fools with the time, and the spirits of the wise sit in the clouds and mock us. |
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| Igneous Magma Posts: 320 | Quote:
Sexual attraction is not the only reason a leader could assign or refuse to assign somebody to a "dangerous" mission, you're right. That's the reason behind fraternization regulations, not just with regards to dating but social interaction in general has always been closely monitored to help prevent that kind of conflict of interest from creating difficulties for the group as a whole. If there is a problem, then that officer (or whatever) should be dealt with. That doesn't mean throw the baby out with the bathwater, though. When I was in boot camp I was *way* too exhausted to be thinking about having sex. Maybe it's different for different people, I dunno. But part of becoming part of the military is learning discipline, so I do not think it is unreasonable to expect that to extend to inappropriate sexual overtures/activities, whether they be from homosexual shipmates (or squad members or whatever term you want to use) or heterosexual ones. I have not served in combat. Several of our friends have, and this has been a regular topic in our household off and on for almost 20 years, and although the "EW!" factor is still there when the subject of homosexuals come up, the consensus still remains that in reality, you're too focused on not getting your a** shot to worry about getting a piece of a** at the same time. And I will reiterate.Gays have been serving in the military probably almost as long as there has BEEN such a thing as "military". It's about time they were afforded equal protection for equal service. Personally, I would like to see us get past the whole juvenile giggly/ewwwwwww/whatever of mixed genders as well, but I suppose that's not going to happen in this lifetime, at least not in this country. But right now, the ONLY way to ENSURE beyond a shadow of a doubt that nobody is forced to "endure", knowingly or otherwise, the scrutiny of somebody who is sexually attracted to them, would be to have individual shower pods in every single facility on every single military base worldwide. Let's raise taxes to fund that! | |
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![]() Igneous Magma Location: Canberra, Australia Posts: 666 | Quote:
It really is a dumb suggestion - I can just imagine after learning how to bayonet someone in the face that yeah, would mind a bit of bum! Its this homophobic notion that while the blokes are on the field, the p00fs will be up the rear checking out the blokes. I mean how ridiculous. I'm sure most of these comments come from people who've never been in that environment. I reject your reality and insert my own! | |
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| Liberated thinker Location: New Mexican Alps Posts: 2,268 | Agree Jane Doe, service on shipboard is unique. But one must qualify rights with the uniqueness of the military mission. In certain instances, particularly in land combat the mission is all important and sexually derived relationships could/might deter proper assignment and even performance? Plus . it usually takes a long time to change institutional rules and all those who have never served have opinions?? I served in the Marine Corps during peace and war and it never occured to me to buck the system? I didn't question the orders and regulations that existed. If I had I'd probably have been locked up. Besides I trusted those who made the rules to know what they wanted and never became a "sea lawyer" trying to acquire new rights? Go with the flow was my motto! Thus we play the fools with the time, and the spirits of the wise sit in the clouds and mock us. |
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| Redskins Rule Location: South-Western Virginia Posts: 2,542 | Quote:
All I see when I look down, something jumpin' on the ground, Scratchin' dirt, cluckin' in the barnyard - Tell me, could that be you? John Kay | |
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| slipping sand Posts: 1,988 | Quote:
Look out kid, they keep it all hid. | |
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![]() It's only logical Location: San Diego Posts: 4,950 | . Quote:
Since when is being treated as an equal in ones own society considered a "Special Right"? . I don't suffer from insanity... I thoroughly enjoy it | |
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