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![]() Sedimentary Rock Posts: 13 | The MySpace Suicide Indictment FOXNews.com - Mom 'Thrilled' Over MySpace Indictment as Neighbor Prepares to Surrender - Local News | News Articles | National News | US News The mother of a teen who hanged herself after being spurned by a fake boy on MySpace is "thrilled" that a federal grand jury indicted her neighbor for her role in the creation of the profile. I'm sure lots of you have heard about this before. The very short story is: a mother/daughter used a fake profile on MySpace to make a 13 year-old girl feel so awful that she committed suicide. Most of us can agree that the girl and her mother who commited this act are dispicable; however, do you think she should be punished legally? I don't, and I'm appalled that she may serve up to 20 years. If I were her lawyer, here's what I would say: Poking fun at an individual is not a crime. Lying to a 13-yearold about your identity is not a crime. So what was the crime? There is no known evidence that the mother/daughter team faked the profile in order to make the girl commit suicide. There is also nothing that shows obvious suicidal tendencies in the girl that would show homicidal neglect/manipulation on the part of the mother/daughter team. The fact that the girl commited suicide is indeed unfortunate, but there was certainly no force and no conspiracy. She chose to take her own life. I don't know the specifics of what happened, but I would have to figure that many people have taken much harsher criticisms of themselves at even younger ages. Should we make all criticisms a crime? How are the perpetrators of these harsh criticisms any different than those of innumerable amount of people who say horrible things to others every day? The fact that a suicide resulted is irrelevant. It could not have been predicted. I realize this may be asking a bit too much, but in a completely objective world, the mother of the daughter would say to these people "You are worthless and immature human beings and I may never talk to you for the rest of my life, but I realize my child has to take at least some responsibility for her own actions." |
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| formerly Isherwood Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 13,221 | According to the original article the charges are based on the following: Quote:
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I'd say a civil suit would be in order, much like the one brought against OJ, but a criminal case isn't appropriate for violating the terms of a business contract. The Forum Rules Radical Atheist Heathen Queer Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be. (Ashleigh Brilliant) | ||
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![]() Amused Location: Mid Atlantic Posts: 1,229 | The drama unfolds... DBKP - Worldwide Leader in Weird: Myspace Suicide, Lori Drew, Megan Meier: 'Megan Had It Coming' Blog Being Investigated By Local Authorities I'd have to agree with Jack. That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong. W. J. H. Boetcker |
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![]() Molten Ash Location: With a grain of salt. Posts: 126 | It all depends on weather or not it was done intentionally to provoke her into suicide... Surely a grown woman would understand the depth and potential of an attack, and should be given trial on count of... provocation to suicide? Or murder. The 13 year old girl probably doesn't fully understand the seriousness of the crime, and should be given the full sentance that a child can be given. "If everybody beleived in an eye for an eye, the whole world would be blind." -Ghandi. |
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| Volcanic Erupter Location: Hong Kong (for now) Posts: 7,016 | I think the law is an ass if using a pseudonym on the internet amounts to unlawful access of a computer. C'mon, this is cyberspace. Everybody should know it's a virtual world and nothing is for real. Put it this way: if you don't know, you don't belong here. |
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![]() Arbiter of Weird Location: New Hampshire Posts: 1,330 | Question for people who know their law: if this woman had physically dressed up as a young man and broke the heart of a teenage girl who then committed suicide, what would have happened? I have to agree that treating the ToS of every website as law is a bad precedent. They can throw you out of the mall for any reason, but I do not believe you can get into legal trouble unless you also break U.S. law. This will make virtual spaces into private nations. If I was just a wee bit more bored and a whole lot richer I'd make a website where the ToS clearly outlaws clicking on a certain button, and then try to sue everybody who clicks it :) This is ludicrous and will be overturned fast. Destroying America one Volconvo post at a time. Religious controversies are always productive of more acrimony and irreconcilable hatreds than those which spring from any other cause. |
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![]() Sedimentary Rock Posts: 13 | What she did wasn't against any laws, nor should it have been. There was no "conspiracy" and I don't know what "unauthorized use of computers is". The only unauthorized use is disobeying the MySpace UA, and that's not a federal crime. Any decent lawyer should win the case. |
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| formerly Isherwood Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 13,221 | California, New York and a few other states have laws against "unauthorized use of a computer". Quote:
The Forum Rules Radical Atheist Heathen Queer Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be. (Ashleigh Brilliant) | |
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| formerly Isherwood Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 13,221 | Basically. You cannot enter a network or gain access to another's computer without their permission. If you don't have a username and password, you are not allowed on a network or computer. Gaining access through packet capture or social engineering is illegal. I don't see how this applies in this case. The Forum Rules Radical Atheist Heathen Queer Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be. (Ashleigh Brilliant) |
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| slipping sand Posts: 1,880 | What a pathetic person that mother is. The behaviour of a child. As for laws, she obviously broke none. What a piece of work is man! How noble in reason! The paragon of animals! And yet, to me, what is this quintessence of dust? Man delights not me; no, nor woman neither.. |
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![]() Livin' for speed. Location: Canada, but not in an igloo. Posts: 122 | Quote:
So making someone commit suicide isn't assistance in suicide? The same happened close to my city. A doctor said he would give someone a lethal shot (needle) so they could die in peace. He would only do it if, say, for example, you had case five cancer and you had just 2 months to live. He'd allow you to make an appointment, create a legal notice, and 'kill' them in peace instead of them suffering. One man killed his daughter because she was born mangled. All her tendens, muscles, and bones were twisted. Everyday she lived in agony. He finally had enough. He took her to the garage while she was sleeping, turned on the car, closed the windows, and the doors. She died peacfully. He was charged 20 years... I think. Stopping someone from suicide = super reward Assisting in suicide = 20 to life. Life = priceless. Just think: God had a plan for her. He technically had a route 'made' for her. every so often, he creates a fork in the road, and the person must choose what to do. The mother/daughter combo basically ended it short. It should be considered murder, but it's assited suicide. Let's put it this way: If someone asked you to shove them off of a 20 storie building, would you do it? If you knew someone was depressed and looked like they want to kill themselves, would you tell them, "Do it."? the mom/daughter combo deserves MORE time in jail than that. I bet either guilt is now eating them alive, or they're thinking "That was fun." My bet's on the guilt. If this happens again, though, I would become so enraged, I'd find them on facebook or whatever and trash talk THEM. They deserve it. It's me, it's me, it's D.D.T! | |
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| Uncomfortable Mind Posts: 375 | Is there a formal legal term for intentional emotional abuse? My interpretation of this one is that its like punching somebody hard, and in a freak occurence, they die from it. This myspace deception that was meant to hurt the girl's feelings, was like an emotional punch. It was meant to hurt her, but it had the unlikely and unintended (but perhaps not regretted) occurence of causing what we might call 'emotional death' - suicide. The situation gets a bit more complicated though, as it was an adult that perpetrated this 'emotional assault'. Also it seems the girl was a bit emotionally unstable, if the perpetrator knew this, I suppose you could compare this emotional assault with punching somebody you know isn't in great health. Maybe the equivalent of a heart condition. This could have been a crime like an adult punching a 13 year old girl who had a heart condition. The reason we can imply there was some muscle or force behind this punch, is that an adult would have more life experience, and would have a much more sophisticated way of charming a young girl into the rouse of a sincere online relationship. The adult would also know a much more effective way of timing and wording an insult in an effort to hurt the girl. Now admittedly I've reached pretty far with this comparison, but I think there is still some merit to it. Another factor, is the belief of the perpetrator, that there would be no accountability or punishment for this deliberate intent to hurt someone. I think that the terms of service argument is kind of unrelated to the issue. It seems the ToS is being used through legal channels, as a way of justifying the punishment, that people intuitively feel the defendant deserves. But really, nobody thinks somebody should be punished 20 years for violating terms of service. People feel the perpetrator should be punished for their deliberate emotional assault on somebody young and vulnerable. An important note, is to not dismiss emotional assault as being less substantive than physical assault. Just because the pain or damage disappears into the recesses of an individual's mind, does not mean that harm, in a real sense, was not inflicted. |
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![]() Arbiter of Weird Location: New Hampshire Posts: 1,330 | You know, nobody ever commits assault. If I punch someone and they get hurt its their fault for being too squishy and insufficiently shatter-resistant. I just can't come up with a general definition of murder that doesn't also make this murder. This mom set out to cause someone harm and the victim died as a result. The girl did not even have a preexisting mental illness! Come on, this is silly. Destroying America one Volconvo post at a time. Religious controversies are always productive of more acrimony and irreconcilable hatreds than those which spring from any other cause. |
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