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Something sparked a thought in me today.
Being gay is a choice, but not in the way you may think, but maybe it is an insight into people claim it is.
My girlfriend was talking about BDSM with her Mom who "didn't want to understand it". At first this perplexed me, and I have run into this before. Why would someone be afraid to understand this? Then it struck me. If they understood it they would need to make a choice.
If I don't understand BDSM then I can't understand
Being interrogated is not fun. I used to trust the police, I don't police officers I mean the police as an organization. I still have friends who are police, but in general the trust I once had in the police has been replaced with fear. Most of that has to do with the interrogation. Let me tell you right off the bat that the police did not hurt me, they didn’t abuse me or yell at me, they didn’t shine lights in my eyes. I think if they had done some of those things that it wouldn’t have been