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Arawn-ap-Hywel · Mar 11, 2008, 04:57 pm

How many of you practice or enjoy

either constraining their lover

or being constrained by their lover

as part of regular foreplay

or as a stimulation during love making

if so what forms of constraint do you prefer

mental

physical

if physical

cuffs, rope ,cord ,bandage, chain, silks, scarves, barbed wire, electrical flex, tie-wraps, leather, rubber, latex, kevlar, steel....
please add your own

just curious

really

Arawn-ap-Hywel · Apr 26, 2008, 02:29 pm

I presume the membership is cautious and very straight in their lovemaking

topic closed unless you'd like me to take the lead (as it were)

2 votes or message ...

**Jack** · Apr 26, 2008, 02:34 pm

I'm not into any of that. I see that as being disrespectful of my partner, which is why I don't enjoy it. I once (and only once) had a partner ask me to kill them during sex, this to them was a huge fantasy. It totally turned me off.

Maryjane · Apr 27, 2008, 02:22 am

I've used silk scarves

Arawn-ap-Hywel · May 22, 2008, 02:51 pm

Quote:

Quote by: Maryjane

I've used silk scarves

In a passive or dominant way?

Knotted?

did you take precautions in case the knots overtightened or wetted?

Arawn-ap-Hywel · May 22, 2008, 02:52 pm

Quote:

Quote by: Jack

I'm not into any of that. I see that as being disrespectful of my partner, which is why I don't enjoy it. I once (and only once) had a partner ask me to kill them during sex, this to them was a huge fantasy. It totally turned me off.

Jack, yes such a wish would make me wilt greatly as well

Maryjane · May 22, 2008, 11:54 pm

Quote:

Quote by: Arawn-ap-Hywel

In a passive or dominant way?

Knotted?

did you take precautions in case the knots overtightened or wetted?

Passive for him, dominate for me.

It was nothing hard core, just a bit of light teasing to add some spice. (we had a 4 poster so why not?) so no, no emergency precautions were needed.

SamD69 · Sep 8, 2008, 04:28 pm

2 words that I live by
DOGGY STYLE

Night · Sep 10, 2008, 01:17 pm

I had a bf who loved to be handcuffed lol it wasn't bad.

Mar 11, 2008, 04:57 pm	#1 (permalink)
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Apr 26, 2008, 02:29 pm	#2 (permalink)
Arawn-ap-Hywel Hot Lava Posts: 1,409	I presume the membership is cautious and very straight in their lovemaking topic closed unless you'd like me to take the lead (as it were) 2 votes or message ...

Sep 8, 2008, 04:28 pm	#8 (permalink)
SamD69 Sam D 69 Location: UK Posts: 6	2 words that I live by DOGGY STYLE