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Quote by: Starboy gay couples already adopt

I know they do, that really chaps my hide!!!

They are already foster parents.

I don't know about that...

They already have gay sex. They have been doing this for some time now. Now here is something that may not have occured to you. It is not all that likely that your daughter would come across it because gays self segregate.They know most males can't handle it. They know that a person such as yourself just freaks out. They live in their own neigborhoods. They self seggregate .

What in the hell are you saying? They do not...They live amoungst us...and sometimes flamboyantly at that. But, thats not the point, I never said they should segregate anyways...

But I gotta tell you. As much as you think you are a sensitive twentyfirst century guy you are acting like a bigot.

Boy, do you have me all wrong...Nice judging of character...you are right, I am not a 'sensitive twentyfirst century guy' - I happen to be a logical, intelligent, thought-provoked WOMAN-AND, if I were acting like a bigot, I would be saying that I hate gays, which I specifically said that I did not...I also said that I really have no problem with them, as long as they don't flaunt things in my face...which they do...And the issue here is not whether or not we think being gay is acceptable or not, which I actually do not...And it's not about whether we think being gay is okay, which I actually do not, but to each his own...And it's not about if we like them or not, which incidentally - I have really good friends whom are gay, and I like them a lot, they are my friends...
The issue here is whether or not we feel as though they should be allowed to be married, which I absolutely do NOT!

Ahhhhhh! You are conflating so many unrelated issues. Gays do not want to get married because they seek society’s endorsement for their sexual practices. They could give a shit about that. They no more seek your approval for their practices then you seek their approval for your sexual practices. So get over the sex. You have such a dirty mind for a person who is creeped out so easily.

That is something you perceived, I never said anything of the sort, let's not talk about dirty minds, because I never even approched the topic of how they have sex...

Some people want to be with other people to be a family. It is not about kids, although it might be. But gnarly old people get married all the time. Some of them want sex. To many that is very creepy. They are not going to have children. Yet we allow them to get married. We allow them to be a family together and to have all the rights of a family. These rights have nothing to do with sex. A marriage license is not a sex license. It is a license to be a family. If you have a narrow view of what a family should be then that is your problem. My bet is that you should be more concerned about the sexual practices of hetero parents of your daughter’s class mates than from the very rare gay couple that may have adopted a child.

My issue with them not adopting kids is a far cry from the way they have sex. With any luck, most people do that behind closed doors, and not right in front of their kids, so that's not the issue, the main point of that is the normalacy of it, kids need to be accepted by their peers, and not teased...and as they are growing up, they need mommy's for certain things and daddy's for other things-they can't possibly have all those things if they are growing up with a gay couple for parents...bottom line.

You do not have to have a license to have sex. It doesn’t matter how kinky or strange the sex is. The marriage license is not about sex. It is about being a family.

Even without gay people, there is definitely a lot of kinky & strange going on in this world...As a matter of fact, I never even said gay people practice 'kinky & strange' sex...YOU did!

Also gays parading through streets is something they will do no matter what. However are you creeped out by gays dancing through your streets or by the pictures of gays that prance through the streets in their neighborhoods? Because you must not be so naive to think that broadcasters expect you to watch it like a car wreck? There is far worse done during carnival in Rio but that doesn’t seem to bother you. If they are prancing on their own streets and the media shows it to you and you watch then who has the problem here? You or the gays? Your aversion to gays is starting to look like a perversion regarding gays.

I suggest you stop speculating, because you have been wrong about me thus far...My issue, with this whole topic, is that I do not feel that gay people should be married...It just doesn't match the definition of marriage...which as I stated before is 'the practice of joining into a union together as husband (man) & wife (woman). PERIOD!
If you read my previous posts you will see that I did say that, fine...if they want the 'inheritance, insurance and legal aspects' that marrige brings...fine, give it to them...but, that apparently wont cut it...It's not about all that only, they are on the 'unfair pitypot' and want to be given the same rights as heterosexuals, and to be treated like they are the same as us, but, in all actuality they are not...because they are going against the grain of nature...So, be different...that's fine...But don't push it on everyone else. They don't want to be allowed to be married, just to have a family, they want to be on the same playing field as us...it's not our fault they are different...If I died my hair blue, I wouldn't sit around and get mad everytime I noticed that someone thought my hair was 'different', and get mad if they didn't include a check box for blue hair on applications asking for hair color. When someone is different, they are usually the ones who treat themselves different and then expect others to not see them that way...