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Quote by: trixmix Well, like I said before, it is such a big deal, ONLY because it makes it look like the norm...If my daughter has to come home from school - perplexed - asking me why a boy in her classs has two fathers, and no mother...that is bringing the issue to my doorstep...and that is where I have a problem... |
I am very sure that your daughter knows about far worse but has never talked to you about it. There are far worse issues that are already at your doorstep. And besides gay couples already adopt. They are already foster parents. They already have gay sex. They have been doing this for some time now. Now here is something that may not have occured to you. It is not all that likely that your daughter would come across it because gays self segregate. They know most males can't handle it. They know that a person such as yourself just freaks out. They live in their own neigborhoods. They self seggregate. But I gotta tell you. As much as you think you are a sensitive twentyfirst century guy you are acting like a bigot.
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I don't think people are bringing it up with the intention of creeping me, or anyone else out...I think that, to gay people, it is something they cannot control, or it's so normal, and should be accepted as such in their eyes-so they are desperately trying to fit in & have the same rights as a man/woman couple whom are married...In the process of doing that they are broadcasting louder, and marching longer, and speaking up more...which, essentially is shoving it my face-and in the face of my children who are so impressionable while they are young...and can fall for any idea that is presented to them while their brain is developing...I wish that they could be more discreet so that my children have a chance to develop normal sexual desire first...before that idea is presented to them so frequently and so emphatically. As for being manipulated, I am not...but I seriously believe that my children may be...You can't hardly even turn on the TV anymore without some blatant display of homosexuality...It's almost like they are spreading propaganda to get more followers....That is an exaggeration, I know...but seriously...it's not far from that!
I am not just picking on Gays either...If there was a sudden epidemic of people with say, bestiality fetishes, who suddenly decided that living in the USA entitled them to whatever love they choose...and they love dogs, and other people decided to have tolerance and acceptance of that practice...I would have the same arguement with them...Or cross dressing or anything out of the norm...Don't shove it in my face, and especially don't shove it in the face of my children, until they have grown up enough to form their own opinions...and will not be swayed by something thats being force fed to them!
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Ahhhhhh! You are conflating so many unrelated issues. Gays do not want to get married because they seek society’s endorsement for their sexual practices. They could give a shit about that. They no more seek your approval for their practices then you seek their approval for your sexual practices. So get over the sex. You have such a dirty mind for a person who is creeped out so easily.
Some people want to be with other people to be a family. It is not about kids, although it might be. But gnarly old people get married all the time. Some of them want sex. To many that is very creepy. They are not going to have children. Yet we allow them to get married. We allow them to be a family together and to have all the rights of a family. These rights have nothing to do with sex. A marriage license is not a sex license. It is a license to be a family. If you have a narrow view of what a family should be then that is your problem. My bet is that you should be more concerned about the sexual practices of hetero parents of your daughter’s class mates than from the very rare gay couple that may have adopted a child.
You do not have to have a license to have sex. It doesn’t matter how kinky or strange the sex is. The marriage license is not about sex. It is about being a family.
Also gays parading through streets is something they will do no matter what. However are you creeped out by gays dancing through your streets or by the pictures of gays that prance through the streets in their neighborhoods? Because you must not be so naive to think that broadcasters expect you to watch it like a car wreck? There is far worse done during carnival in Rio but that doesn’t seem to bother you. If they are prancing on their own streets and the media shows it to you and you watch then who has the problem here? You or the gays? Your aversion to gays is starting to look like a perversion regarding gays.
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