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Originally posted by Snouter,
Another concern is the demographic changes in the USA as a result of the huge illegal immigration problem and stupid people generally having more children than intelligent people.
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Woouw! Try to even REMOTELY SUGGEST this one on such baby-obssessed forums. You burnt your bridges! Of course, I didn't do that over there, I know better, besides those are not "debate" forums, those are "support" forums, women talking "baby and preggy" stuff.
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..but despite the fact that this is an extremely politically incorrect idea - it remains as true as TRUTH itself. On average, IT IS the stupid people, often the completely powerless people, who keep reproducing b/c this is their only source of power and authority in this world, where they never get to be questioned, restricted or held responsible in any way.
Society still believes that you have unlimited unlimited reproductive and parenting rights no mater what.
How many people actually get in trouble for "bad parenting"? How many are required to show some sort of "parenting readiness" proof before they become parents? And you have to do something really horrific for social services or the police to come hold you responsible.
Other than that...it's your kingdom, baby!
In most other areas of life, these people are - unfortunately - kept by life with their heads down - but boy, is it cool or not to just make your own human beings to boss around and feel in charge of...if life didn't put you in that position otherwise?...
If you try to ask them why anybody in the 21st century would get upset about not having a 4th child when they already have 3 perfectly fine kids...they cannot give you a coherent, rational answer.
They just kept telling me how I am immature and devoid of any wisdom b/c I don't have any children yet and I don't know what it feels like...and how money doesn't matter, only "love" does.
When I asked why a family of 4 (AND with some college funds growing!) would have any less "love" in it than a family of 6,7 or 8...still no coherent answer, actually more like no answer at all. It is pathetic what's going on.
It scares me beyond belief to see how many women want "mini-me's" and how few actually THINK fully about the life (not just "cute baby" but also FUTURE ADULT!) that they are just about to create.
Besides, I am starting to understand more and more why women have been historically considered "stupid".Hey..maybe on average, they really ARE, when compared to men.
Eurika!
I am a woman myself - staunch liberal, as everybody has probably caught on by now
; have had my share of "gender studies" and have accumulated enough "baby fever" to last me a lifetime.
HOWEVER, I find it impossible to relate to the way so many women approach the act of creating a life. No brain, no true sacrifice or concern for that future young Johnny boy, only frill and animalistic instinct. That's pretty much it. Some were even advising some idiot that had tricked the boyfriend into getting prg. - to leave him and keep the baby if he still doesn't want the baby. But they were of course, terribly adamant about "not having an abortion", under ANY circumstances!
As liberal as I am....and I still see how I would not want my kid to grow up without a father, PERIOD. Fathers are humangously important in children's lives and I certainly don't need some wacky self-righteous conservative to teach me that.
I want an IDEAL situation for that darn kid when I decide to make him ....and I will have it.
Yet.. respectable, "traditional" women like these...would rather throw a life into some sucky circumstances than cool down their stupid "baby" instincts until they find themselves in the right situation and with enough brain in their heads to actually have that. And then they like to fancy themselves as "caring mothers".
Yes, it sounds elitist - we established that long time ago.
I just wonder why are people nowadays screaming "elitism" as if they scream "blody murder" instead of trying to make their way into the elite? If not by riches, at least by brain and by observing the stinking world around them?
I gotta say my liberal "soft spot" for the weak, the stupid, the God-forsaken and the "unassuming" is just about to burst.
After witnessing these elections too...I really think the lefties may do themselves a favor by minding their "elitist Ivory castles" and forgetting for a while about the "weak" who simply do not want to be helped after all. You can't force LOVE AND CONCERN onto people and you can't save them from themselves.
This has got to be the mega "boo-boo" in the leftist ideology.
(OK, let me know if I really sart to sound like a conservative...
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Sira