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Originally posted by syracusa,
However, what I said is that the "better-off" person most of the times turns out to be demanding and controlling in the relationship. It is exactly because he(she..less often) KNOWS that he saved you from a sucky life and you went ahead and said yes with a big grin on your face...that he now believes you owe him big. |
Going in with that attitude is pretty much dooming it to failure I would think. Love is more about giving than demanding.
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