| Perhaps you might get a better understanding of what it's like to be a non believer and why it upsets us when believers force their opinions on us...
He was told it was god's plan. I had a woman (nice lady) stand on my porch and tell me he was in a better place. (she assumed we are christians) I suppose for believers that makes them feel better somehow? So the next time christians throw around that thing they like to say that all non belivers go to hell...think about what you are saying. My son was told his dad was in hell.
Yes, daddy is gone forever. He lives in our hearts and minds. If he wants to go visit him physically, we go to the cemetery. That's where he is.
Thanks for the condolences. And no, I don't have a problem talking about it. It happens to all of us. Just some sooner than we anticipate.
That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong.
W. J. H. Boetcker |