Women have their role, men have their role. Both work hard. The family unit and "opressive male dominance" was an expedient way to function. Humans are animals, hierarchy is necessary. You look at families today they do not function. The woman wants to nurture their children and keep them safe. Men want their children to succeed and rough it. Both are necessary in a family unit yet the masculinity must override feminity and require children to grow rather than play safe.
In the majority of my relationships the women I have been with willingly remain under my dominance, and attempt to change my mind rather than openly defy it. Normally I weigh their opinion, and what is correct. I do so in a mild manner and attempt to accomplish both. That is how things should be done, that way a family moves as a unit. In the end value I make the decision though. All men must value their woman's opinion. I often hear things in my relationships such as "you do things I want without me even asking" or "you are so kind and generous". It's a good balance.
As to women in the work force. Men have more aptitude in doing certain things as women have more aptitude. Neither are inferior but rather they complete eachother just as they should in a relationship.
There are always exceptions based on each relationship and person. Some men are submissive, some women dominant. Most women want their child to succeed but are very clingy, and hinders them. Some men are the same way. Most of what I speak of is stereo-type models.
Above all respect must be used for any person male or female.
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You complain about the modern 'screwed up' gender roles.
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Gender roles are screwed up these days.