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Why are you telling me this? Did you think I was asking you for a date?
Yet you wax cynical about relationships. Why? People with happy relationship experiences don't tend to take a cynical attitude about them.
Again, how dos that jibe with your embittered attitude about relationships?
Illogical. Most relationships would fail if one person had disgustingly poor personal hygiene, but that doesn't mean relationships are all about good hygiene.
Be that as it may, there are long-lasting marriages where the couple no longer has sex.
These researchers found the divorce rate for sexless marriages was below the national average. Top 10 Myths About Sexless Marriages (When It's the Man's Choice) -- ThirdAge
So yeah, you're wrong.
Your beliefs are not realistic because they are based only on your personal feelings and personal experience.
You've got o remember that your feelings and experiences are not universal to all people. |
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So you feel the only purpose of relationships between men and women is for men to get sexual service?
As for "all men pay for it and all women sell it", that sounds like a reflection of your personal experience, and it's unfortunate that no woman has ever really wanted to have sex with you, but instead offered it as a service in return for dates and gifts as you have implied. Perhaps if you improved your technique...? Or it could be you are choosing the wrong women to date
This quote here would be the reason I told you I was a woman, NOT because i thought you wanted a date.
I dont call my attitude about dating cynical, I call it not living in a fairytale, most peple start dating because they have common interests, similar beliefs, and they want to get each other naked.
As far as your support article goes , thats great. What if the spouse cheats due to a sexless marriage? It does often end in divorce, after the initial " Im sorry, it will never happen again", and then it happens again..... i have seen it, and have lived through it, with my bio father...