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Lefty, sweetheart, I am a woman, ,a straight woman, so I really have no desire to date another woman, unless it leads to a really hot 3 some with a man...
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Why are you telling me this? Did you think I was asking you for a date?
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and please dont tell me how unhappy i am , I am in a 14 year relationship with the love of my life, we are VERY happy together,
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Yet you wax cynical about relationships. Why? People with happy relationship experiences don't tend to take a cynical attitude about them.
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he understands I am not a monogamous person, and we are very , very much in love,, DO not presume to psychoanalyze me , youre far too far off base , good try though.
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Again, how dos that jibe with your embittered attitude about relationships?
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As far as relationships not being about sex there too, you are incorrect, how many marriages last when one spouse is NOT having sex with the other , not too many. But I am wrong???? Dont think so.
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Illogical. Most relationships would fail if one person had disgustingly poor personal hygiene, but that doesn't mean relationships are all about good hygiene.
Be that as it may, there are long-lasting marriages where the couple no longer has sex.
These researchers found the divorce rate for sexless marriages was below the national average.
Top 10 Myths About Sexless Marriages (When It's the Man's Choice) -- ThirdAge
So yeah, you're wrong.
Your beliefs are not realistic because they are based only on your personal feelings and personal experience.
You've got o remember that your feelings and experiences are not universal to all people.