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Quote by: big_lefty  So you feel the only purpose of relationships between men and women is for men to get sexual service?
As for "all men pay for it and all women sell it", that sounds like a reflection of your personal experience, and it's unfortunate that no woman has ever really wanted to have sex with you, but instead offered it as a service in return for dates and gifts as you have implied. Perhaps if you improved your technique...? Or it could be you are choosing the wrong women to date.
Be aware that your own experience is not reflective of something universal.
So yes, I am telling you that you're wrong. Relationships are not all about sex, and plenty of women engage in sex without thought of recompense.
Whenever I hear somebody say "marriage is stupid", I know I'm talking to somebody who has failed at relationships. Rather than examine your own culpability, you choose to believe that ~all~ relationships are doomed. That way it's not your fault and you don't have to change the behavior which caused the failures.
This is a very human response but it's one that will keep you bitter and unhappy. |
Lefty, sweetheart, I am a woman, ,a straight woman, so I really have no desire to date another woman, unless it leads to a really hot 3 some with a man....and please dont tell me how unhappy i am , I am in a 14 year relationship with the love of my life, we are VERY happy together, he understands I am not a monogamous person, and we are very , very much in love,, DO not presume to psychoanalyze me , youre far too far off base , good try though. As far as relationships not being about sex there too, you are incorrect, how many marriages last when one spouse is NOT having sex with the other , not too many. But I am wrong???? Dont think so.