| I said I'm not sexually attracted to women. I'm not attracted to their physical attributes. I'm not attracted to their general personalities. Girls drive me nuts. I know there are exceptions on the personality thing (I am, in fact, an exception to most female stereotypes of personality) but I would find either prospect too unsettling. There are several dimensions of attraction and, in correlation to one of your points as you so crassly put it, I am not at all attracted physically to female genitalia in the least. The nuts and bolts (no pun intended) of sexuality are an integral part of the nature of attraction from which we cannot escape. Appearance is by no means whatsoever the end-all of attraction for me, but it's just silly to postulate on the prospect of sex with someone that I don't find sexually attractive.
To put it simply, I just don't engage on that level psychologically or emotionally with someone whose gender is ambiguous. It takes more than a "come hither glance" for me. I like looking at the pretty boys in anime because there are no strings attached there. I'm a lot more cautious and careful when we're talking about a real person.
I'm trying really hard to picture your scenario, but I just don't go for petite men with light voices, small hands, etc. You just don't find a lot of tall, broad-shouldered, flat-chested, reasonably deep-voiced women out there. At least I haven't.
Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame. -- Song 8:6 |