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Quote by: nine steps  That's all well and fine and works well in an academic discussion, but not in the real world. It's called nature. Nature dictates what men and women are attracted to and the vast majorty of them are attracted to the masculine and the feminine. This is mostly a problem of laziness on women's part. They demand men be masculine, which they are attracted to, but too lazy and worthless to work at the corresponding counterpart. Nature, it seems, doesn't give a *^&% whether you like 'traditional gender roles.' Aint' that a bitch? SORRY.
Now, can we get back to the topic, please? How women are so nauseatingly butch in Ameica today. |
OK. Let's go to the real world, which is someplace with which you only have a limited connection as far as I can see.
I think that most strong men want a woman who is physically attractive. Looks do count for a lot for guys. Unless she is overwhelmingly beautiful, some makeup helps a lot. And, some artificial enhancements don't hurt if nature didn't treat her well (see above comment about Xena), but that may or may not make or break the deal.
Most reasonably confident, intelligent, and might I say, masculine men, want a woman who can think for herself, but her thoughts should be in general agreement with the man's. That doesn't mean submissive or accepting of every whim of her "man", but generally of the same "set of mind". And, she has to be able to BE feminine, but doesn't necessarily mean that she can't also be strong.
All in all, a real man will be looking for a real woman. One who is intelligent, confident in herself, reasonably attractive and who can respect that man for who he is. Not one who is artifical, superficial and submissive. Nor is he looking for a woman who will direct his life with her overwhelming power. What a real man would look for is a partner to spend his life with.
Keith