It really depens on who you're dealing with, and what the situation is. If you're tippin on four fours (sorry, I just had to... means getting drunk on fourties), thats a completely different situation from going to one of those formal parties. But I don't ever say "nice tits" to anyone... that just sounds stupid. Also, I can say to my girlfriend, "damn check yo dadunkadunkdunk", but I'd never say that to some stranger
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