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Originally posted by Mia,
Syracusa, as I pointed out in your other thread, your "no choice" thing is bunk. (For your situation anyway. There are single mothers who hav little choice). You choose to see only two options when there are literally hundreds. |
You must know better (what my situation is).
In addition: those single mothers already made their choice of HAVING children. I have not made mine yet in this regard; and it is exactly because I do not perceive as many "happy choices" as you do - that I may not have mine at all.
When I make a choice, I must pay a cost for that choice.
In my case, all the costs that I would have to pay for either choice would be too high and too harmful to the life of my future offspring. One way or another. At least, this is how I deem them.
Just because 90% of the people do not see it necessary to make as many provisions for the lives of their future children as I do - does not make them bastions of "truth", and me - one of "error".
But then again, the children of 90% of people struggle as Hell their entire lives.