| Maryjane,
I have never had a homosexual experience. I have never even been tempted in that direction. Although when I was younger in the 80's gays were starting to come out of the closet and I was certainly given ample opportunity if I'd wanted to try homosexuality. Like your sons I waited tables and bartended. There are a lot of gays in the service industry. There really is some truth to the stereotypes of gay hairdressers and florists.LOL Many of my friends were gay men and lesbians. I have dated several bi-sexual women. Even lived with one for a year. But many of my friends from that time are dead now. Drug abuse, AIDS, Hepatitis, liver disease from alcohol. One from suicide. They call them "gay" but most of my homosexual friends were not happy. And not because their behavior was not acceptable but because they just could not make most of their relationships work. |