| My wife will tell you that she's not above 'putting some extra effort' into our sex lives if she's buttering me up for something (so to speak) ... like some jewlery, a new vehicle, a girl's weekend w/ her friends ... whatever ...
I'm also likely to do a little more than usual the week before the SB or if I want something coming up ... like buy flowers, wash her car, backrub, (i've tried non-reciprocal sex, but it isn't as effective ... by the same token, she ain't getting a new car or ring for washing my car or buying me flowers) ...
I don't think that's prostitution, I think it's good people skills and being conscious of what your mate values in your relationship.
If a girl needs 20 bucks and is willing to have sex with a stranger for it, she is a slut. If a woman in a relationship who knows her partner values sex does it with the expectation that the same 'courtesy' (... sacrifice ... call it what you will) would be extended to them pertaining to something SHE values (money, gifts, chores ... whatever) ... it is a 'fair exchange of energy' ... as my wife would say.
I don't call that prostitution, slutty, or whorish ... i call it shrewd |