| People are dumb. Looks fade, money and ability to produce it can go away in an instant - if you don't have things MUCH deeper than that you are in deep doo, or at the least you are living a superficial life not worth having :-)
Now if my guy happens to have looks and happens to make a good income, that's a bonus. As you pointed out, it becomes important to a certain level if you want children.
But it's not the most important thing in life.
And yes, I will go to grad school. I'm getting started in my own business that will allow it. My guy is helping me to do so and I will be paying him back.
You can actually do everything you listed even with children and your husband's income. I'll send you an email if that's alright.
"...with like-minded people one cannot discuss. With like-minded people one can only participate in a church service, and you know how I feel about church services." Ayaan Hirsi Ali |