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Old Jan 4, 2007, 12:34 am   #114 (permalink) (top)
Sappho
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What do you mean by objectification, and why is it bad?


I mean, I have had a few one-night-stands. In no way did I disrespect the person I had sex with. We both just wanted sex.

I can think of psychological reasons for why my behavior was emotionally unhealthy, from my point of view, but I am not sure why it would be immoral.
A few one night stands is not lots of one night stands, which is what my response refers.

To have lots, which is a subjective amount, which to me means.......... well lots, many, an amount well above average cause it's lots, is to consider a woman or man as a sexual object only. But humans are more than a means to sexual pleasure, and to treat them as less than what they are is bad morally.

Also, where it is that a person seeks sex from lots of sexual partners, not in a swinging environment, I begin to question the amount of consent entailed.

Is it really the case that consent is given by all of these in the lot that is lots, or is coercion entailed by the sexual predator. I think the latter would be more true than the former.
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