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Originally posted by prettyredhead,+--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (prettyredhead,)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Adoptive mothers should not have a career, it should be a negative when adopting. [/b]

Are you saying it is better for a kid to be homeless than adopted into the care of a working mother?

Originally posted by prettyredhead,+--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (prettyredhead,)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Too bad that they WANT a baby. I WANT a million dollars. Nature made it so that they could not, perhaps it HAD a better thing in mind, shame on them for not taking on a little challenge. [/b]

I disagree. Shame should not be placed on those who take over for others who did not act responsibly. It is an act of mercy towards the child. Do you see it as shameful because you are prejudiced based on age?

Originally posted by prettyredhead, They want abortion illegal, so they can have the "pick of the litter" so to speak.

Or they want to end the killing to save those lives. Or maybe there are individuals with different reasons.

Originally posted by prettyredhead, It has nothing to do with their ethical point of view. It is PURE GREED.

Or it is a value over human life and compassion for our kind. Taking on a new dependant doesn't sound like a wise choice for the greedy.

Originally posted by prettyredhead, They WANT a baby, they DONT WANT to really parent.

Or they want to raise a baby to an adult as a parent. The choice to adopt is a choice to parent.

Originally posted by prettyredhead, Three years old is not too much older than a baby. And to me, a 6 year old is still very much a baby.

And there are people who adopt older children too.

Originally posted by prettyredhead, It is better NOT to be born, if you are not wanted. Right?

Adoption puts them in a home where they are wanted.

Originally posted by prettyredhead, Ever heard someone say that they wished they were never born?

I've only heard wanted kids say that. Often they were pampered to the point of being spoiled. I know adopted people who are happy to be here.

Originally posted by prettyredhead, Why make her have a baby she hates?

She doesn't have to keep it.

Originally posted by prettyredhead, It isnt your body. It never will be.

It is 2 bodies.

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They were here first, they should be placed first above unborn fetuses. Because we foster unfit adults, we all clean house from it.
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That should be recommended, not required. If you require it then how do they know someone adopted them because they wanted them and not because they had to in order to have a new kid? When someone adopts them despite the option of adopting a new kid, it shows they are wanted.

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Thus leaving their kids to foster hell. And then what? Should have had an abortion then.
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So do you believe abortion should be mandatory until all homeless kids are adopted?