| Can we be honest about what our hormones do to us? Some of us having stronger sex drives than others. There are a few young men so tormented by their sex drive that they can't think of anything else, and it is terrible to make them attend co ed classes where they can not avoid being stimulated. And some of their teachers should be wearing robes that hide their figures, or better yet, give these boys mature male teachers.
Denying our reality and insisting we are not evolved from animals and do not share a lot in common with them, but are especially created by God in His image, but then again are "sinful" is, very problematic!!!! This mythical explanation of our creation and then incorrect explanation of our sinfulness, has had humanity in a mess for thousands of years. How about addressing the problem of defining reality with myth?
Until I turned old, every man in my life attempted sex with me. This includes a step father, a father in law and brother's in laws. As you can easily see, this involves many relationships. I mean having sex with my mother's man would be an offensive to my mother! Having sex with my husbands father and brothers would damage all those relationships. Despite reframing from having sex with her husband, my mother's awareness that her husbands were attacked to me, did terrible damange to my relationship with her, and my self image. I spent most my life feeling like a doe in open hunting season. I was really hurt by this, and why has everyone gone silent?
Attacking a man for wanting to protect women, and going silent when the talk becomes the reason he believes women need to protect themselves with dress, and staying at home unless escorted to town, is not going to resolve anything. Females do need protecting. If Muslims are wrong, what is your solution to the problem? |