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Quote by: another day This is ridiculous.
1.) You sure know an awful lot about the deepest workings of that mans mind. Bullshit. He was a pedophile, and his desires were SEXUAL, which were why he acted out in a SEXUAL way on the child. Whether he was consciously aware of it or not, the sexual desire was clearly still there in his subconscious whether he wanted to accept it or not. If "he could not help himself" from making sexual contact with the child then it was sexual desire that drove his attraction to children, like almost every other damn pedophile. Like you said, he did not plan it, and could not control it. This obviously doesn't mean the sexual attraction wasn't there, it means he had buried it deep in his mind and did not want to acknoledge it, making himself think that he simply loved children and this was why he was attracted to them. Low and behold, he made sexual contact. You'll have to try harder then that.
2.) So people who are addicted to child porn are not pedophiles? That is fucking lunatic. Straight up. If anything it would be the other way around. People who molest children are the sexual predators, seeking dominance and control over the child (albeit in a sexually driven way), people who look at child porn are the pedophiles, seeking sexual stimulation from the young children they are naturally attracted to. But thats not right either because you can easily be a pedophile and a sexual predator at the same time, and countless men ARE. |
another day, there but for the grace of God, go you. You could be that pedophile. Our sexual responses are the result of imprinting and this imprinting will not go away just because a person wants it to. That is why the man shoot himself. I feel terribly sad for him, and I am as concerned about your lack of sympathy as would be concerned about pedophiliac, because both are having an emotional reaction that excludes the consciousness of another's expereince and appropriate compassion.
He didn't want to be as he was, but actually hated himself for it. How sad. He could not change it. Something happened to him that imprinted this sexual behavior in him, and the same could have happened to you. I guess you were lucky because it appears it didn't happen to you.
Why are we so hard on each other because of our sexuality, especially when it is different? I am remind of the wolves that can turn on an injured wolve and kill it. I think this extreme intolerance for differences, must be a primitive instinct. It clearly is not judgement based on information about our sexuality.