| was this some sort of compromise you two had to agree on in order to salvage your relationship?
i once dated a woman 10 years my senior who i later found out was in an open relationship.. damn near knocked the bitch out once she told me.. for me, it isn't a trust/jealousy/insecurity thing... i simply don't feel comfortable sharing the one i love.. people who came before me don't matter.. i definitely have my own trail myself. i've also done several one-night stands which aren't all too different from what you're doing in that each involves using another person for some cheap sex.. that hollow feeling afterwards dissuades me from wanting to be frivilous when it comes to love and sex. |