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Old Apr 1, 2006, 01:40 pm   #14 (permalink) (top)
Arawn-ap-Hywel
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There are many views on pornography, and they much depend on the creator and user.

It is voyeuristic and generally utilised as a stimulus in male onanism. In some severe instances this can lead to addiction http://overcome.byu.edu/Articles/Cline.asp

Does it exploit women?, it often portrays them as usable and mostly features masochistic male approach to sex. Very few really good erotic films are made for the couple audience or promote love making, those that do are often over ambitious.

It is agreed couples utilise pornography for improved stimulation and possibly ideas. Thus it becomes an appetiser in place of foreplay of fantasy play-out. Though this form of rescue often leads to homely attempts of some vary specialist practices which mostly end up in an ambulance being called for an embarrassing visit to their local emergency unit.

Like everything it comes down to the user. Are you a sad male whom is totally self indulgent without social skills too woo or be wooed by a girl? Are you a couple lacking in imagination or the spirit of adventure. Or are you just the quiet watchers who find the twist of watching others perform so as to reach the height your own (own and partners) satisfaction?

Either way pornography like all adult stimulants should be kept out of the reach of those without mature minds. The line between erotic and pornographic is fine, its as close as the line between a friendly flirtatious smile and a come on! Those adept in their social skills and interaction with people rarely utilise this material, for their adrenaline rush comes from the live fleshy sensual salacious touch that can be licentious and deliciously debauchedly enacted with another breathing in the same room partner(s) (Oh yes more than one, for those that realise happiness can occasionally become a group expression).

Pornography is a fine expression of freedom as is drink, but like any fire it needs understanding to control and handle properly (No i didn't say you need to handle yourself properly).

Be good to yourself by only treating it as an occasional fantasy, preferably in the company of another.
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