| I think anger can get some good stuff done and is the only way to deal with some people. The more laid back and happy you are, the more efecttive anger will be. I personally don't like getting angry, not because of what other people think, but because of the sour mood it puts me in.
The way you put it makes sense, and gives plenty of good reasons to express anger. I think it ahould be used as sparingly as possible though. Anger itself is also used as a way to make others conform, not only to get out of conformity. People don't like to mess with those that are angry. They comply with shouted orders to get the angry person to shut up. Then when the person sees that they got the desired results, they continue the bahvior.
Anger should never be the first reaction, nor should it be used regularly if it is to be effective. I suppose it does have good uses if used appropriately. |