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Quote by: Flip Jackson The toy fruit analogy could work. You could fulfill your hunger with toy or plastic or wax fruit, but that doesn't mean it is good for you |
But the release of those endorphins, whether from sex or masturbation, IS good for you.
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Quote by: Flip Jackson Maybe we don't need as much sexual fulfillment as we think. |
But maybe we Want it. So what's wrong with that?
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Quote by: Flip Jackson it isn't necessarily always a good idea to eat just because we think we are hungry. Often this leads to people eating to much. Couldn't that work for porn and sex, too. |
Yes, people can be addicted to porn or sex just like they can be addicted to eating. But that doesn't mean food is bad and should be treated sacredly.
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Quote by: Flip Jackson YourTokah, you mentioned how saving sex for marraige was kind of a romantic idea that was silly. |
Actually, I said it was a "charming romantic notion". I never said it was silly. "silly" carries a different conotation altogether. Had I had a chocie, I would have waited.
Considering over half of American marriages fail, there's no guarantee that that person you marry will be the "right" one to have saved it for. Why deny yourself something that is a large part of human nature just to make someone else feel like they're the cat's pajamas for a brief period of time until you get divorced or sex becomes boring and routine? And how does pornography take sex and make it un-sacred if it's being viewd by individuals who love having their tantric, sacred sex together and enjoy a little stimulation? Or by one person waiting for that tantric spouse to get home?