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Old Mar 31, 2005, 04:36 pm   #18 (permalink) (top)
Lilith
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I feel for you too. It's wrong for you're new wife's income to be calculated in. It's her income not yours. So now your ex is going to get a real nice paycheck now. I'm sure you have a fairly decent job yourself, plus you said that you also pay her alimony too? Well my gosh...does she even have to work? Not that it really is any of my buissness..but I know that if I was fixing to marry a man paying child support, I would be livid if my income was fixing to axed also. I would expect him to take care of his kids...but er...I would be more apt to do nice things for the kids of my own choice...not have my income whacked(espacially when they were not mine....)

I know a girl at work who is married to a guy who pays child support...I'm not sure if her income is calculated in...but I always get to hear about her frustrations when the ex always has her hand out for money...it's like she expects since my friend has a good job...she just thinks they are rolling in money and always expect them to provide everything for that kid on top of child support...Hell every article of clothing that kid wears, is because they buy it..her mother does not buy anything extra for that kid she expects them to do it..and it's not like she does not have a good career or any other children to worry about. It's sad when it revolves around money and the kids get lost in the shuffle...not that that is your case, Mr. Vicchio, just making conversation.


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